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PhillyDominant

Male Dominant, 33, philadelphia, Pennsylvania
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PhillyDominant - Male Dominant, Philadelphia Pennsylvania | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About PhillyDominant

I'm a single white male with a good job, a car, and my own apartment. I started with that because so many profiles on here seem to complain about men lacking one or more of the above. Hopefully, we can move quickly past each other's checklists and learn about each other as human beings, where having the right character and connection with someone is more important than having the right clothes or the right toys.

I am dominant, and I'm also a sadist. I don't play games, but I am a reasonable adult, and I understand that not everyone is as experienced or advanced as I am. I can be patient, but still push you when you need to be pushed


I will tell you upfront what I expect from you, and I will accept nothing less than your best.


I will add more to this later when I have time. If you have any questions for me, don't hesitate to ask. If you are respectful and polite, you will find that I am more than willing to answer your questions.
Has anyone besides me noticed the recent explosion of "deaf subs" on Collarme? No offense to those who really are deaf, but my fraud detection early warning system tells me that most of these are just scammers offering deafness as a (fake) explanation for why they won't talk to you on the phone to verify they are who they say they are.
Just a though, folks... how does one seek, or have, an "online TPE" relationship? I've seen several profiles here saying this is what they seek, and I find it ridiculous. If you seek TPE, then the first thing you need to understand is that TPE means TOTAL power exchange. How can you submit totally to someone you aren't willing to meet in real life. Before you even begin, you've already placed a HUGE limitation on your submission, precluding any genuine surrender that would exceed the boundaries of online fantasy play.
Submissives and slaves, please take these words to heart. I don't expect anyone to answer every email sent to her. I understand that some of you get a lot of mail, and much of it is not worthy of a response. But, if you have spent several hours chatting with someone, exchanged photos, and/or made tentative plans to meet for dinner, I think common courtesy dictates at least some acknowledgement. If someone is writing to you to follow up on these conversations, then the least you can do is say "No thank you. I've decided to pursue other interests." Ignoring messages at that point, or deleting them unread, is just rude and its speaks very poorly of your character. ?
A few DOs and DON'Ts for anyone thinking about contacting me. DO call me Sir if you are comfortable with it. DON'T call me master unless you've already earned my collar. DO be respectful at all times, even when talking to strangers. DON'T use foul language. I find it unattractive when a woman swears. DO show an interest in something besides being a slave. DO respond to my messages, even if to say "Sorry, I don't think we're compatible." I'm not a stalker, and I won't harrass you if I can't stir your interest in a more clever way. DO show more interest in what you can do than what you can't (or won't) do. DON'T come to the party with a lengthy list of hard limits. If you follow this simple advice, I am confident we will get off to a good start getting to know each other.
Just wanted to say "Merry Christmas" to everyone. Hope you all have a wonderful holiday, and I hope none of you have to spend it alone. It's OK if you WANT to spend it alone, but well, you know. It's better to be with people you love, isn't it??
A few people have been asking me what I'm looking for, and I've come to the conclusion that I'm not actively "looking" for anything right now. I'm open to a variety of things, from friends to playmates and who knows what more... but I'm pretty happy with my life right now. It's full enough that there's no need for me to go searching for something, unless I just happen to see something (or someone) that I want!
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