I am a very go, go, go kind of person. My weekends (and some weekdays) tend to be jam packed with local scene events, play parties, bar concerts, plays, hanging out with friends, physical activity, watching films (I prefer the foreign and independent kind), clubbing, etc. I work hard during the week and on the weekends I play harder. I tend to be the guy who runs my friends ragged when we hang out, then I drop them off at home and head back out. Hopefully you could keep up with me, although I could just drop you off at home and keep on going myself (that is if we can't think of other things to do at home instead that might keep us both awake).
I have not included a picture yet as I still have a separation of lives. I am an American mongrel with my ancestry tracing back to many different parts of Europe and a very small dash of Native American. I have clean cut brown hair, brown eyes, goatee and mustache. I am 6 feet tall and in decent shape. I practice yoga and work out at the gym when time allows.
I am playful and feisty, and I enjoy rope bondage (both topping and bottoming) and power struggles. At times I can be quite the sadist and usually leave marks while doing so (although they are usually easily hidden). I tend to have be a sensualist even while I am being a sadist.
I have a very dry and sharp sense of humor and can be unintentionally blunt at times. I have an uncanny ability to bring up sore spots without knowing I am bringing up a sore spot.
I am mostly straight and polyamorous, with a long-term secondary female partner who will remain as such for the foreseeable future. I am looking for a woman who will accept that I am polyamorous, regardless of whether you are polyamorous or monogamous to me.
I am also looking for a long-term relationship. The following are general guidelines and not set in stone: I am looking for a woman who is straight or bisexual (or "try-sexual"); kinky; polyamorous or monogamous; of any race; average, fit, or slim build; between 21 and 36 years old.
Your life should be well balanced with other activities and not so into the scene that your life completely revolves around it. You should be willing to try a variety of new things.
I live in the Philadelphia area and plan to stay here for the foreseeable future. I am my own bread winner and I expect the same of you unless you are currently in some formal program of education.
