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More About Him: I've been in the lifestyle for eight years and have been in the local scene for about 5 months. I consider myself a switch - which I blame that on being a Gemini. I'm a sadist when it comes to my dominant side. I like to inflict pain with any impliment I can get my hands on. Bondage is also big on my list of things I like to do and I'm hoping to learn how to do more with rope than simple knotwork. I also enjoy verbal degredation, humiliation, and mindfuckery. For my submissive side, I prefer to take a service oriented role. A good flogging or some CBT is nice, but I'm not into heavy pain play when I'm on the receiving end. I much prefer being humiliated and used. I usually feel the need to let the subbie in me come out and play only a few times a year when the feeling strikes. We are open to playing with other people so don't be afraid to ask, just keep in mind that I am completely open with my wife and anything we do will be discussed between the three of us. 'Cause that's how I roll. Now the boring part. I'm openly a nerd...I love books, video games and bad porn and awesome/bad movies. I love music and go to as many live shows as I can, granted, it hasn't been that many lately. I love tabletop RPG's and comics. I tend to not talk much in social situations. I'm still trying to figure out why. So if you know me in real life and I don't say much more than hi, don't take it personally, it doesn't mean that I don't like you. I'm just terrible at small talk. More About Her: I have been living the lifestyle for almost 9 years now. My current Master is my husband and we've been together almost 8 years. I love being submissive and it is my natural state but recently my Master and I began switching roles for brief periods of time because he wanted to experience submission. I have found that I do enjoy being a Domme and he claims that I am good at it so I suppose we both consider ourselves switches now.
I have a long list of likes and a much shorter one of dislikes/hard limits with regards to our play time. I have recently become more open with my Master about some kinks that I did not have the courage to embrace. Him being the wonderful Master that he is, took me to places of submission that I had never been to before and has enthusiastically helped me to accept my kinks. There are a few left that I am unsure about but he is working towards getting me out of my reluctant shell to try some things that were hard limits for a long time.

6/17/2010 5:46:08 PM

I wrote this for another site a while back and I thought I would share it here as well.

I've been mostly dominant in my relationship with my wife and we both love it. Recently, I've been wanting to explore my submissive side to a greater degree than I have in the past. When I had the urge to be submissive I would ask my wife to take over for a couple of days and tell her exactly what I wanted and she would comply. I enjoyed it, but for me I didn't feel submissive, it felt like she was just following my orders. But this time things would be different.

We talked things over and she agreed to be my Domme until further notice to be determined by her. We agreed that she would have complete control. Then she layed out her rules. I was not to cum without her express permission. I was to always refer to her as Mistress. I was to wear her panties at all times. When at home it was the only thing I was to wear. Every time I went to the bathroom I was to clean the last few drops of piss from my cock with my fingers and lick them clean. I was also required to eat my pre-cum during play. I was to be her whoreboy...

It has been nothing but bliss. She has only allowed me to cum twice in the past two weeks, both times she allowed me to cum was in my panties and I was made to sleep in it. I've had to endure over-the-knee spankings, I've been flogged, humiliated and treated like a sissy slut-boy. My ass has been used for her pleasure and my tongue has been used ad her toilet paper. I have experienced sub-space. And I love it.

This has been almost a spiritual experience for me. I've learned a lot about myself. I now understand the mental aspects of submission that I would have never truly understood as a Dom. It has been a wonderful experience that I will cherish for a long time to come and I can't wait to see what else is in store for me the next time she takes control.

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 Age: 29