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Male Submissive, 27, Ontario
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About PhDFeelGood
I have recently moved to Arab, about 30 miles south of Huntsville.
I am now looking for a house boy/girl with referencesexperience (that's references and experience bound by sex) . If you dont have references, we can work with that but it will be a slow process.
*NOTE* I'm getting a lot of messages from "slaves". In theory I am very open to this option. My experiences tell me that this kind of power exchange (unless built up over time) is largely either a mastebatory fantasy or a great way to build up resentment.
**** Below is an old writing, from when I had more time to be thoughtful. Some of the information is out dated but I feel it is a good representation of *ME* ****
Ok, some of you know that Ive had stupid amounts of down time recently with virtually no play, this has given me plenty of time to think about what really matters to me and how I see this whole scene as it applies to me.
First of all the things that I really missed. The things I missed most are the real moments playing with people that I love and respect, knowing that I'm being given something that matters and is meant for me. Im sure that I will always enjoy casual play though I havent been motivated to pursue it recently.
What I want. I've decided that I'm not interested in a full time sub, weather its just been my experiences or nature Im not sure, but I just dont have that drive right now. I am however interested in finding a partner in crime. The kind of girl that doesnt need to be told everything but is more than happy to help me in my pursuit of maximum fun. Someone that will step up when I fall short because she knows I'll do the same for her, and if you never make mistakes youre probably not pushing your comfort zone near enough.
As to the role DS plays in my life.... honestly not much. While I am always more than happy to help out as needed I really have zero interest in structuring the life of someone else. I dont care how the cupboard is arranged or which outfit she wears to most functions. I do however expect to be able to meet my own needs without conflict. If I'm bringing a date home Ill let her know, but I'm not asking permission. I would like to have a girl that would help me with many of my dates. Instead of going to a movie and getting pissed off grab a strap on and well pull an Eiffel tower on the other girl, good times will be had by all.
I've also recognized how I create some difficulties in finding what I want. Typically I've been brutally honest, and a bit of a dick, because my interest in most women is limited to play and I'm not going to get emotionally invested in a play partner. Once in every great while I do encounter a girl that could be much more, and I have absolutely no idea what to do. I recognize that I go from being a safe/fun but casual person to wanting to spend real time with that person, talk, and generally act like a real human being. This is quite a change in my behavior and it never quite works out as I intend. I'm still trying to figure out how to solve this problem but as I rarely have a chance to theory test it has been a slow and painful process.
Oh, apparently Im practicing unsafe sex, spreading diseases, uneducated, dishonest and evil. If you hear any other rumors let me know because its always interesting hearing about myself..... I still dont remember the chicken. |
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