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lithiumapathy
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Thanks for reading my profile.
I should start off by saying I'm fairly new to searching for a BDSM based relationship. I've been interested in it my entire life.
Because of this my needs are pretty precise and specific. So bare with me and read my entire profile so you don't waste our mutual time if we won't be compatible. I believe equality should be the basis of all relationships so I will not submit or act submissively toward every random person who writes me. I will consent to power exchange play when I am ready and willing.
Now that that's out of the way, I'll tell you about the basics:
I love good conversation. I'm looking for someone who enjoys the same. I value deep, interesting conversations because it's the best way to really get to know someone intimately. Most of my friends share themselves and their views on the world and appreciate that I share mine. I want to find someone who also relishes that connection.
I also enjoy painting and drawing. I dabble in other art forms but I'm a beginner in many of them. My friends have told me they see me as a creative, expressive, and unique person. Additionally I try to be compassionate, empathetic, and care about the world and people. These are qualities I hope to find in you.
I find a lot of satisfaction in someone controlling me, but I have a lot of specific parameters in how its done. This is due to people utilizing control over me inappropriately. I would like to get over needing so many parameters, but I know it will take someone being understanding and patient for me to be able to do that. I will need time to trust you and feel safe. I feel like that's a given in any BDSM relationship.
If you can't appreciate someone who has a complex personality with many facets and layers, you should stop reading right now. There is a lot of duality in my personality that creates a particular balance that some people have a difficult time understanding. On the other hand this enables me to appreciate someone else who also has a complex identity.
I'm very interested in the sexual aspects of BDSM but its just as important for me to find someone who can be with me in day to day life. You should be a regular functioning person with a desire for the BDSM relationship as an undertone.
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| Age: 20 |
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South Africa |
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