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About phantom1174
I am a highly intelligent, very creative and imaginative Goth - a sort of Phantom of the Opera type without the cheese - with a penchant for wit, wisdom and the good things in life. I am currently writing a musical, but don't let that put you off - it's actually rather good.
My ideal person will be of similar intelligence to me, and with a similar level of taste - for there is more to life than whips and chains; these things are present, but my main method is in the control of the whole, therefore enabling a greater degree of meaning - and to me, meaning is the greater part.
I am a Pagan - and I would hope that my submissive would also be a Pagan, for I intend that we should do these deep and meaningful things together.
It would be desirable were you, also, Irish. I adore the Irish; but should You not be from the Land of the Morrigan, that shouldn't dissuade you from writing to me, if all other things click. |
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People often ask me "what is a switch?" My reply is that it's a device for turning electrical items on and off - which is only true, after all. And switches are also electrical items themselves; not so much "items" per se, but nevertheless electrical. Ask a chemist.
But my switchdom comes not from a desire to tweak volts or abuse amps - I am in the business of pleasuring persons I find interesting. In the BDSM arena these are exclusively female - it matters not one whit their orientation because I am, at least in the relevant sense, flexible.
What is it that gets me going? Invariably, it's not the activity per se, because I enjoy most activities, whatever end of the implement I am on. It is the person I am playing with. I cannot partake blindly, although I am used to blindfolds etc., but the knowledge of the person and the deepening understanding and, yes, Love, I feel for that person is an important part of the process for me. I'm not suggesting for one moment that people who cannot engage emotionally for whatever reason are insensitive - indeed, many are extremely sensitive and that causes them to resist any deep involvement - but I am a sensitive soul, and my ideal environment is the bosom of emotional engagement as well as the physical.
Anyway, You can all wake up now - lecture over. Just thought it could do with clarification, is all. |
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