A new boy has arrived and will be staying for a few days, working on the farmhouse.

Happy New Year everyone xxx

I have 4 boys that have applied to be mine that seem to understand the level of control I am seeking.

I will be meeting each one over the next couple of weeks to decide which one I feel will have the most promise.

Oh and you have to have a very high sex drive!

Okay just to stop all of the messages from boys applying to be mine... I am not looking for online play. I am looking for the real deal as they say. You have to live close to me. You do have to be over 6 foot, you cannot be a switch or a dom. You have the hunger of being owned. You will be over 30 years old. You must love domestic duties and have a very good sense of humour. You have to be single with no ties.

No worms need apply!

I'm seriously thinking about taking a new boy on. 

I am rather fussy though. 

He will be over 6 foot and not just say he is! 

He will be well built and masculine, I am not looking for a cross dresser at this time. 

He will understand that I always demand a great deal and most cannot handle being mine :-p 

He will be much more interested in my needs than his own. 

He will need to accept that orgasm control will be the very first thing that I will take as his Mistress. 

He will not live more than an hour away from Staffordshire and have not ties. 

I am not interested in dominant males or switches that want to submit for this position!!!

This will not be a part time or occasioal play position! 

I will add to this later. 

Please don't waste my time if you cannot tick all of the above boxes!

Had an amazing night at Exodus with my boy on Saturday. Took him down to the cellar there and spent 2 hours pushing and testing him. The last hour was spent purely on boot and leg worship and had quite an audience throughout. Met up with friends I hadn’t seen for quite a while and ordered the boy to warm the feet up of the female sub who mentioned her feet were cold. :-p I have a feeling he would have preferred it to be my feet but he did a very good job. He certainly made me proud!

I was asked today if I have ever denied myself orgasms to see what it would be like and must confess to finding this so funny. Why on earth would I wish to do such a thing? I am far too horny (all the time I kid you not) to think that a good idea. I feel I should let the males into a secret too... A great deal of women, (I hate to tell you if you like to lock your female subs up) that some of us don't actually need to touch to enjoy an orgasm so it would never work with me anyway. :)

The boy has been finding his denial far too easy for my liking. Now to be fair he would never beg as his submission really is about his Mistress and nothing more. A very rare quality and probably why it took me years before I took on one submissive again instead of many.

I know he is really struggling deep down but just not enough. Today I stepped everything up and he has been teased every few hours throughout the day and now the evening. I have told him when he can think of something he would like to give control of himself over to me, I will allow him to orgasm if I agree. The feelings generated by this will be screaming against how he sees his submission. It may seem a strange thing to ask him, as he is in no doubt I can have anything I desire with and from him but I love the conflict that will be tearing through him now. He has already come up with one idea which I once controlled before. An easy cope out, thinking I would agree as it obviously is something I demanded before... I refused it. I can't wait to hear his next idea, I'm sure as his teasing becomes more and more difficult, he will suddenly have many ideas I would enjoy!

Of course I could be wrong and like the last time I had him in the dungeon, had him at my mercy, when most would have pleaded and begged for me to stop over and over again he took more than he should just to please me.

We will just have to wait and see.

On Tuesday evening before the boy left, I took him into the dungeon to administer his first ever physical punishment by Me. As he was being strapped to the bench, there was no pleasure or fun on this occasion. Each strap I slowly pulled even tighter than usual, so it was impossible for him to move at all. I knew it was going to be very different from anything he had experienced before. This time it was cold and clinical and the feeling of disappointment was tangible in the air. I picked out 2 canes and after explaining why this had to happen this way, for what he was punished for and without any warm up, caned him hard. I did allow him to recover from each blow before the next. He has never been punished properly before and I know it was tough but he needed to learn to fear being punished and learn that what I say is exactly what I mean and he needs to follow My direction or rules to the letter.

After the punishment was complete I allowed him to kneel next to Me and I gently told him that I was pleased he had taken his punishment so well and explained that it was now all behind us and we could now look forward to his further training and development as My boy.

It would appear that I have a few followers of My journal as many have asked how the boy was punished for touching himself, so here we go...

The boy had been sent ever increasing tasks each day of orgasms he was to achieve which I knew would increase his sex drive (difficult as it is sky high already) and become impossible to achieve. Twice he failed and so he was made to remain chaste and not to touch himself for pleasure until he was next with Me.

I asked him a direct question the day before he was due to arrive if he had touched himself, he admitted that only that morning he had touched. It hadn't been for very long and he was very sorry and of course it would never happen again.

So instead of the orgasm he was expecting the first night he was here, he found himself bound to the bed with Me teasing him for nearly 3 hours! His groans were ever increasing and although he would never beg, I could see he was getting to the point he would not be able to take any more for much longer.

I then blindfolded him and lay down next to him. I then started to play with Myself and not being the quietest of people to orgasm, had one orgasm after another. I knew it was driving him insane. I stopped long enough the put My fingers into his mouth so he could taste his Mistress and released one of his hands and informed him he could touch himself as much as he liked but he was not to orgasm. I then returned to satisfying Myself yet again.

At first he was very good but the more orgasms I had, the more he found it difficult to stop, making Me have to force his hand away several times before he climaxed.

This ended up being the first time I could see him question his position as Mine. I had to secure his wrist by force again and demanded he apologised and reminded him that it was only his Mistress that decided if and when he could orgasm and that he would always have to accept that as Mine.

He apologise and was very sweet and then horrified by his own behaviour. I was actually pleased he tried to defy Me, it is only times that a boy tests can he really see the boundaries he has set for him. Very pleased with the outcome indeed! I must have enjoyed at least 10 orgasms, actually it must have been much more and he slept happily next to Me hoping that perhaps the next day he would have an orgasm but if it didn't happen, then he knew it was how his Mistress wanted it to be.

I want to take the boy away for a few days. I am having trouble finding somewhere suitable. Having My own dungeon probably doesn't help as only a couple have interested Me so far.  Maybe I should just take a cottage in the middle of nowhere instead. Hmmm

Oh dear the boy has informed Me he touched himself this morning. He didn't orgasm or touch for very long but still he did touch. I have warned him that if this happens again then I will have no choice to fit a chastity device on him regardless of the high contact sport he plays. He should be here in around a couple of hours. Oh how I love the sweet torment of teasing him for hours whilst he is restrained to My bed. Who says oral sex is just for the sub. I have always loved how far it drives a boy to the edge of madness. It doesn’t take but a couple of minutes to hear My favourite words spoken... anything and forever! ;)

It really is funny what can make a grown man cry!

Knowing he was starting to suffer with not being able to touch himself, I asked the boy if he would like to masturbate. Not surprisingly he quickly said he would. So being sweet I ordered him to do so for as long as he could without actually having an orgasm.  He  seemed so sad as he did as he was asked, so delicious and so Mine.

My boy asked Me today if I knew that in some religions, Thursday is also known as orgasm day. It really made Me smile. Looks as if I will have to make sure I enjoy far more on Thursdays from now on.

Sadly for him, he will have to wait a little while longer to join in this particular religious festival.

I know he won't admit it to Me but he is finding abstinence very difficult. I still can't believe a past Mistress would not have wanted to control his orgasms when he is clearly very sexual boy.  So yummy to tease and take to the edge of orgasm again and again. I love that game and spend hours and hours enjoying it.

I need a really good massage tonight!

Right I am officially annoyed! Now I have a cough and cold!Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

 A very sweet boy wrote this tonight to help Me feel better.

Thank you darling Tykenell x

I am a sweet and sensual Mistress

with a sadistic streak that can cause distress

I adore chastity and orgasm denial

controlling their pleasures for a while

I also enjoy total power exchange

without it My life would be quite strange

the more power I have the more I desire

My urge for control getting higher and higher

exerting authority with My whip
I am not looking for a relationship

only here for friends and interesting chat

only contact Me if you can offer that

I will not use the chat facility on here

so I trust I make that point clear

doing the things that make Me smile

I simply love this lifestyle

MISS CHASTITY

Not impressed! I've spent the day in bed as I'm feeling poorly. :-( A whole day in bed and not one bit of fun! Well I have told whatever I have that it can have today and no longer or someone will have to pay!

A very vanilla evening planned for tonight. So quite strange for Me. I'm being taken out for dinner and then we plan on winning the pub quiz ;-)

Oh yes it's very funny a chastity Mistress cannot be satisfied with as many orgasms as she likes... So brave when you are sat behind a computer!    

No idea why but God I'm so horny tonight. To be honest, most days and nights I am but now and again it feels soooo strong I could scream. When I feel like this, the vicious side comes out and I crave someone to use and especially abuse. Who says it's just men that think of sex a great deal of time... 'Bites fist' This is why the boy should be here right now!!!! Problem is My appetite is never sated, when feeling like this. It's not about a few multiple orgasms, it’s about being pleasured for the whole night!

Just to let all those lovely ladies out there that we have a gorgeous celebrity slave amongst us. I guess he didn't expect Me to enjoy cricket. (Oooops have I said too much?) But be warned if you let him know you recognise his picture he gets very nasty, shows he has a foul mouth and talks of raping you. You could say not your typical slave but then he does have a gorgeous smile.

Thank you for all the kind offers of foot massages and indeed those wanting to be a stand in houseboy! Alas I have to say a polite no guys.

Really enjoying controlling the boys orgasms, as if that would surprise anyone. The wonderful thing with him is that he has no prior experience and has no idea what is about to happen and how his body will react to the training he is having. He is in for rather a nasty shock! Fun indeed!

It's times like these that makes Me miss having a houseboy... My feet need some serious love and attention!

I really enjoyed the BBB today, met some lovely people from here and chatted far too long with different subs. Yes a very enjoyable day indeed!

Time for a nice long hot bubble bath and relaaaaxxxx :)

Finished getting everything ready for tomorrow. I am sure I will probably forget something but I am sure we will survive. Tomorrow will be the first time EO will be trading at the BBB. I am looking forward to meeting some people I have been chatting to on here, whilst I am there. If you happen to be going make sure you come over and say hello!

The boy is not just very tall but also built like a beast. This is rather yummy, especially seeing such a powerful specimen kneeling in front of Me, head bowed and quiet. The only problem with owning a giant is the fact, collars and cuffs are just too small for him. This meant I had to have his 2 collars, wrist and ankle cuffs specially made for him. I was hoping they would arrive whilst he was still with Me but sadly that wasn’t to be. Today though, the parcel I have been expecting arrived. Even though it was delivered before 8 I had to put it to one side before I had time to give it the attention it deserved. ;) Not sure I am keen on self torture. :-p

The boy left today. My bed looks too big and empty now!

I knew he would be responsive but he really is the most delicious boy.

I've sent for the boy! It will be interesting to see how he copes each night whilst restrained. The dilemma he will have if he needs to use the bathroom, knowing full well he will have to wake Me... it's all rather hot to say the least. He may as well get used to it sooner rather than later, it is after all how he will always sleep when he's with Me! I know he is terrified of being taken to the red dungeon but I think it has been far too long a time coming for his first taste of what's in store for him. Playthings are so much fun when you introduce them to new things. :-) I'm sure he will enjoy some of the things that will be happening to him but then again if he doesn't, he had better get used to it for his own sake.

I have to apologise for not replying to the messages I have here, I will get around to replying soon. I will just have My hands a bit full for the next few days.

My boy is back in the UK and I am more than ready to shall we say, make his life difficult. ;-)

I may summon him to Me tomorrow for a few days.  I do feel a need to let the sadistic side out to play!

My boy returns to the UK today. So after having a week of just a few rules he had to live by, things are about to change. *Mmmmmmmm*

Feel free to follow Me on Twitter @The_Enchantress

Right had enough for one night! Only 2 pages left. Told you I always reply to polite messages. ;-)

Good night x

Replied to over 14 pages of messages today! Only 4 more to go. ;-)

It would seem a few people are interested in knowing what My boy chose. He chose the 3 weeks chained up each night.

He already has to be cuffed whenever sleeping and understands how difficult it is to sleep at night when actually chained tightly to My bed, so I was surprised he chose this over just 3 minutes of being beaten. I have to say knowing how terrified he is from being beaten is rather delicious to say the least!

I made My boy choose between 3 minutes being beaten by Me or 3 weeks chained to the bed each night.

It never fails to amuse Me what the male will agree to when they think there could be a chance to orgasm.

My new website is now up!

Oh for goodness sake, no I won't submit. *yawn* You would think anyone seeing what I insist on, would have a bit of a clue!

'Deep breath' now where was I?

I was contacted a week or so ago by a slave on here asking if I would be interested in tasking him. His profile picture was a male chained to a computer keyboard. I am now interested!

Get in contact as soon as you see this message, I have work for you to do!

If this is not actually you, don't bother wasting My time by asking to do this work instead!

The gorgeous sub who won the bet to come and stay for the weekend ended up staying unitl yesterday and will be returning to Me again very soon. :-o

After losing a bet I have a rather yummy sub coming to stay with Me for the weekend. 

It seems strange to Me that by the time I read and try and reply to messages sent to Me, how many no longer actually have a profile.  

Very strange indeed! 

11 pages of messages to get through! Unless you have been ignorant and rude I will get around to replying, it will just take some time.