i have been in the BDSM lifestyle for quite a while now.  i am in an open marriage and we have been in the swinging lifestyle for about 15 or so years.  my wife is a switch (mostly sub) but over time has been exploring her Domme side with me serving her.  i have served an online Dom before for a couple of months.  my wife does know of this account and is ok with everything.  we discuss everything and do not keep secrets from each other.

as for me, I describe myself as a submissive, kinky, bi male.  i try to be open minded and easy going.  i have gotten more used to pain over the years.  I still don’t enjoy a mass amount but do enjoy floggings and some paddling.  i enjoy some light CBT as well as wax play.  i enjoy doing various cross-dressing and also enjoy bondage to include ropes, cuffs, and saran wrap.  My hard limits are major pain, blood, scat, urine, needle play, major humiliation, and anything public.