Unlock, understand, and engage the mind - the body and the soul will soon follow.

In my experience the mental and emotional aspects and boundaries of a Ds relationship need to be well established and clearly understoodin order forthe physical sensations of pain and pleasure to be relished deeply and fully. I know it seems paradoxical but I am both a competent and experienced dominant to my submissive as well as a thoughtful and devoted submissive to my dominant.

I prefer that both be

intelligent
experienced
literate
articulate
local
discreet