Collarspace

People on my friends list are my friends, if i havent ever spoken to you, we arent friends! I am also not looking for long distance.

I am a geek, many kinds of sub, and still very much in the making.

I have some ideas of what I am looking for, but as I am still learning and growing, seeing what does and doesnt work for me, it is difficult to pin it down. I have no interest in dominating men, prefer women and NB folk, but am not exclusively attracted to them, beyond that I dont really know, I just know I need to look, and hopefully stumble across it and love the journey as I make it.

I enjoy deep discussions, but not arguments. I like the little gestures (speaking to relationships here) such as nick names, a surprise flower or other gesture, little notes. I dont need them but they certainly carry some weight with me. I am not into being rushed, as I said above I am not sure what exactly I am looking for, and am taking it slow. I rushed a lot in my past and it has turned out less than stellar.

I am a pretty big gamer, and as such I play a fair amount of games, and if you dont game then a relationship might be difficult as it really does take up a fair bit of time and is a big interest of mine that I would LOVE to share with others. If you want to know if i play a game you do, best just to ask me if I play something you have or what my current fixes are, it changes pretty frequently as I try to find a game to play with others, as I prefer to not play alone.

I am a very touchy feely person. It can calm me down, excite me, arouse me, all depends in how you do it. I have some body image issues I am working through, and while I am feeling more and more confident, its a struggle.

I dont feel like doing a plus size disclaimer, but what i will say is, while I enjoy humiliation and degradation, I DO NOT enjoy them about certain topics, one of which is my size.

I also discovered I am a little, or possibly a middle. I didnt get to explore it much when I discovered it, but did enjoy it a lot. I dont mean diapers or making a mess etc, more of a mental thing.