Collarspace

Am on the journey from being dominant all my life to being submissive.
To expand my experiences, help is required from a discrete female dominant who likes to explore.
I wish to push the boundaries of my experience, thus expanding the list of fetishes this pervert has done. I need to hard limit blood play, while keeping a low profile, ie need to be very discreet in general public. The discrete dominant, non professional, lady will choose which boundaries to push and how far. I do not know my pain limits either.

Also in process (does it ever stop) of learning rope skills as a rope top.

**WOMEN I WISH TO MEET** about the same mentalemotional characteristics that most women want of men. Dominant women are human beings, not just a deliverer of kinks. Intelligence, sense of humor, adventurous, likes life are great attributes, I appreciate. Now the old physical requirements (not really requirements but desires), takes cares of ones health, dresses to enhance her features, I like petite (sort of adds to the surrender, big strong guy to the petite female). Large nipples over large breasts, discreet in general public.

**FEMALE ROPE BOTTOM** in order to learn more and practice rope work.

**Ds ACTIVITIES** have done and enjoyed, some cbt and nipple torment, zip line, fire play on my back (to much hair on front would really stink), being of service, chastity, and tease. To add to tease, silky underwear, male and female (including panty hose, stockings and thigh highs), have been done. It is not so much wear of female clothes but the adds tremendously to mental submission especially with the verbal talking by the dominant female. I did find the compression black panty hose helped my legs on leg day at the gym. Learning rope to tie others at this point. A tad of experience but learn well off video. I did learn that a womens hips are better for the Leto Hip Harness than a mans (self tie). The thought of discrete cbt and other actions that though done in general public are private. Of course with her having that smile on her face knowing what is going on. Which would include the key hanging her neck so all see but not understand.

**OUTSIDE OF Ds activities** I enjoy wood working, motorcycles, food gardening, and I am getting back into photography. I also consult with trouble young folks with the intent of help them be productive future adults. Needless to say, it can get rough around here. My life has been in the computer industry doing operating system and communication systems development used by the DoD and NASA. There is where most of life has been, inside a computer. My domination there helped greatly, but was terrible on my social life. I want out of my computer. I still run three business but have scale them back very much.

**LIMITS** Hope the lady does also, but a quick list is
I am not into damage, blood (on medication (blood thinners), I might not stop bleeding), scat, kids, IE, keep it safe and sane to play again. We can always sit down over a cup of coffee and talk about these as equals, not Ds.

**HEALTH** At 72 some may question this, but as some say this is but a number, am young at heart and dream for a future like a 45 year old. I exercise about 2.5 hours every other day. My doctor is all smiles. My blood is checked regularly. Thought I had herpes (blister near mouth). The herpes was self diagnosed. Yet last two years had blood checked, and nothing found. So, I would say, I am drug and disease free and do not smoke. The BMI scale put me in the healthy bracket.