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Guess Ill update my profile as a QA at
1. What am I looking for here?
Im looking for a SERIOUS Ds relationship with a local partner or an online one with the probability of relocating together. )
I take relationships very seriously so please state clear upfront if you are only looking for a quick thrill.
Contrarary to you guys might think, women, or I, understand that relationships dont always work out, so if you, at any point, feel that its not working for you, tell me. DO NOT JUST DISAPPEAR BECAUSE IT SUCKS AND MAKES YOU AN ASSHOLE.

2. How did you end up here? when did you realise you were a bit on the kinky side?
I enjoyed making fun of my classmates, usually boys, when I was in school, and the feeling of control and power over them was just wonderful )

3. Caution to other doms and dommes
Im not a switch and insults definitely dont turn me on in anyway, so youre welcome to leave a message if you want to make friends, but I assure you a completely waste of time if you are trying to push my buttons or ruin my good mood. )

4. Can I contact you if Im married?
Generally, yes. But dont get me wrong, I wont consider you as my potential partner, but I always welcome new friends )

5. Will you have kids with your partner?
Probably not. I dont like children and I dont see how this relationship could continue with a kid stuck in the middle. )

6. Few tips about ice-breaking.
While a sincere and detailed self-introduction is adapted by the most, creative and unique ones really stand out from the crowd. Give your sense of humour a chance, and maybe itll spark brighter than everyone else )
Please dont start with How are you today?, Ive got tired of answering that.

7. Will you get married with your partner?
Possible if hes up to it. Though Im doing it just to shut my mother up. )

8. Will you keep other subs after living with your partner?
I dont see why not. Its not like he gets a vote anyway )

9. Will you have sex with your other subs?
I think Ill only have traditional sex with my partner )

10. What does it take to be your partner or one of your subs?
First of all, loose your pretended humble tone. Nobody talks like that in the real world. Show me who you are as I have shown you who I am, for real.
I understand many of you get used to approach a Mistress with caution and respect. And thats cool if we are just going to play the game of domination just for a short period of time, or if you are visiting a pro. But when you approach me that way, even though I know its not always your intention, I feel the pressure of keeping on the serious and dominating mode, which is very tiring and boring if Im not in the mood for it.
Since Im looking for a long-term relationship, I bet youll agree with me when I say that nobody can stay on the kinky side of hisher life 247. In fact, most of our time would be spent on the vanilla side and Ill only flip to the kinky side once in a while when I feel like it. So its very -- scratch that -- crucially important that we get along in our vanilla mode.
Secondly, if you are confident, intelligent and humorous, then Id say youve got a pretty good chance. )
Thirdly, I wont lie to you and say otherwise because I really do like handsome or cute guys more. If you feel those words may not be suitable to describe you, you can still leave a message without any photos. Maybe Ill get so fond of you that your appearance wouldnt matter anymore. )

11. For those who wants to know more about me
I have a blog, feel free to check it out themistressadler.tumblr.com