I know what I like and it's time to find it (again).

With friends, I freely admit that I like my sexuality with added spice but the rest of the world is free to guess about me.

I'm interested in meeting a woman and seeing where things go.

You'll find me to be: thoughtful, bright, fun-loving, handsome, funny, curious, musical, expressive, sharply dressed, adventurous but sensible.

It’s possible, but perhaps not meaningful to make a list describing the woman I seek because real people are always more interesting and complex than the “perfect” ones I can invent in my imagination.

What’s the point in saying I want a woman who is 5’ 7” and white, when I know that the woman I fall for might turn out to be 4’ 5” and black?

That said, I like women between 4’ 6” and 6’ 5” (although I’ve only dated in the range between 4’ 11” and 6’ 2”).

I’m big on beauty but it’s a hard one to define and I can find it in all sort of things; faces, curves, sounds, thoughts and more.

Normally I’d say the brighter the better but if a relationship winds up being only about sex in strange places, I suppose it doesn’t matter if we don’t have much to talk about.

I have to like the way you smell or all bets are off. For me, if the chemistry is right, I can smell it.

Depending on who I'm with, I can go from a spicy vanilla lover to very intense top.

Northern California please.