I like hiking and gardening and being outdoors. I care about the environment and about animals.  I am very goal oriented and always like to be working on continuous self-improvement. I need a partner that I can just talk to without any reservations. One who wants to share his thoughts, ideas, and problems with  me. I want someone who wants to know everything about me and help me be my best self.

As for bdsm. I like protocol and rituals.  I like positions of service. I am very service oriented. I would really like TPE in time. I don't have a lot of sexual fetishes. I am okay with pain, impact play, bondage, and a lot of other things, but don't need any of them to be satisfied.  I am looking for a life style relationship that is more than just fun in the bedroom. WhatI need to be satisfied are challenges, goals, and growth in my service and submission.

I am not excited about being shared or being insulted and degraded. However, I really like objectification and don't find that degrading at all. Serving and being used are beautiful and passionate pursuits that with the right Dom bring out the best in a submissive.