11/22/2017 12:34:16 PM: Hrm, I deleted this account in July. Now it magically reappeared and I'm receiving emails.

6/26/2017 10:36:00 AM: Why so many blank profiles? Your profile is your chance to stand out in a sea of men. Why do so many of these blank profile owners send messages along the lines of 'Hi!' Or 'Your hot'? When I get a simple message of 'Hi', first thing I do is check the profile. I can understand not writing a lot to a stranger until you confirm that are both real and interested. This seems like a fair and logical approach. But use that brain a bit, why would she respond to hi if you have nothing in your profile to chat about and you've said nothing specific to her? Not even your interest list is filled in and those are checkboxes. How does she know you are actually interested in anything she wrote or if you just like her tits? Yes, it is much easier to talk in person, but this is an online dating site, so please be prepared to talk about yourself. You can only get to the in person part if your first message and/or profile can catch somebody's attention. I can't tell how good of a conversationalist you will be by your bathroom selfie or a stolen porn picture. The art of domination is mostly mental. If you won't use the brain power to craft a decent profile, just how do you intend to seduce me with words? A blank profile to me says wanna be 'true master' who hasn't left the realm of fantasy. Which means go directly to delete and blocked list. I only have so much time to devote to the search, one of the things I'm looking for is a Dom/Master/Owner who is literate and doesn't waste my time. Best of luck in your search!

6/24/2017 7:22:16 AM: I took a break to focus on my career for a bit.  I just reached a milestone and now have time to commit to finding that perfect match for me.  I'm still looking for that one man who knows the difference between real life, fantasy, play and discipline.  I need to seriously reconnect with my submissive side and to connect with a partner with whom I'd have a long term future.  I could go find a play partner any time.  That is not what I seek.  Yes, I've had this profile for awhile.  It doesn't mean that I have been looking the entire time the profile has been up.  I've had a couple of vanilla relationships since then.  I've met a couple of guys from here and had no connection with them. I've spoken to a lot of men over the years and most of them, I've found have lied, either to me or to themselves about what they truly want.  But I remain hopeful that my future is out here somewhere.  Just a little more prospecting until I find him. 

1/28/2017 6:14:00 AM: I joined this site ages ago for the message boards.  You had to have profile to access the boards.  Most of the time when I log in, I look for messages from old friends and head over to the boards to read for a bit.  After Christmas, I started looking for a new partner.  I’m using a couple of services, including vanilla dating services.  Upon reading my emails here, I’ve noticed an alarming trend.  Men telling me my hard limits should be removed or altered.  Absolutely not!  That is why they are hard limits.  They are a predeclared list of actions which are objectionable and horrific to me. How you feel about them is of no concern. A hard limit is an action (or series of actions) which I find unacceptable in any circumstance.  These are not soft limits which are open to testing and pushing.  These are not things you can use for “punishment” because you know I don’t like them.  To suggest such a thing is to demonstrate you utter lack of understanding and respect. Why would I put my life in your hands if you wish to violate my hard limits?  How could ever trust that you wouldn’t if you even suggest such a thing? List list is composed of things that I will scream “RED” if you attempt.  If I’m bound and you don’t stop, I will file assault charges when I’m unbound. If I’m not bound and you don’t stop, I will walk out and NEVER talk to you again. Well, unless we’re married.  In that case, I’d have my divorce attorney speak with you.  Violating a hard limit is abuse.  Plain and simple. If you see something you love doing on my hard limit list, then consider it permanently off the table.  I will never be alright with doing any of those activities.  Not even in a fantasy sense.  If several of the things you love to do are on my hard limits don’t even bother to contact me.  I will never be able to fully trust that you won’t attempt to sway my opinion on my hard limits when I’m emotionally vulnerable.  While you will never be able to enjoy activities you love with me.  Just consider us incompatible and move on. As always, be safe and smart and best of luck finding what you desire in a partner. 

2/13/2016 11:17:37 AM: If you hadn't guessed from the pictures, I love wearing corsets.  Because I have to work in a secure environment where I pass through security screening daily, I do not wear them often.  I'm down to 4 corsets, all of which are the front lace corsets.  Back lacing corsets are a pain to do solo.  I do tight lacing (8-10 inches depending on time).  I cannot just throw a corset on and tighten it up that quick. It amazes me at the number of men who insist that I throw on a corset and lace it up for a picture for them.  Really?  /ignore   Obviously, you are out of touch with reality and this is just some fantasy thing for you. And well, I'm not here to decorate your world or fulfill your fetishes without us being in a real relationship outside of the internet. I've found that I can tighten a corset 10 inches if I take a couple of hours.  The first 6 or 7 inches are actually fairly easy to do.  After that, I tighten, tie it off, let my body adjust to the restriction, the start the process over again in 15 min or so.  Each time gaining a fraction of an inch.  Usually, after the last bit of tightening, I'm really unable to move much.  Because I rarely have time to get into a tight laced corset, I am not use to wearing one.  I'm sure if I wore a corset daily, movement wouldn't be as difficult.  I do dream of a situation where I could wear a tight laced corset as close to 23/7 as possible.  And having a partner who could lace me into the corset.  There are so many beautiful back lacing corsets that I want one day.  But I never buy them because I'm honest with myself, I'd never wear them if I had to lace myself into them.  But I do have a really long wish list of corsets that one day, I'd love to own.