I'm a D/M, many years of experience and have an outstanding "toy" collection.

Anything we might do is consensual and agreed upon beforehand. I realize trust is first and foremost. And that communication is key to that. I've done everything from 24/7 TPE to LDR.  I enjoy playing with all the pleasure and pain of bdsm, but also like all the mental and psychological elements of training as much as the physical.  

You should know up front that I'm married and therefore looking for discretion in everything we might do.  Kink doesn't work with my SO.  If that's a nonstarter for you, please move on now. 

I'm an educated professional, work full time, but have a good amount of flexibility time-wise.  I'm HWP, blonde hair, blue eyes, good looking so I'm told. My biology and appearance are less than my age, substantially. Happy to share photos elsewhere. And/or to meet in a convenient place. 

To be clear, I'm not defined by or limited to kink. There's much more I enjoy--slow sex, tantra, kissing, massaging, and long foreplay. 

I know there can be a lot of uncertainties and misinterpretations about reading profiles here. I believe honest, straightforward communication is paramount. I am happy to try to address questions about anything I've written (or not written) here.

I love music and dancing. I love poetry. I love the romance of light touch, gentle kisses, holding hands, stroking hair off the forehead or ear, gazing into bottomless eyes, evocative conversation, and long silence. 

I teach yoga and enjoy all the feeling and spiritual aspects of bodies and minds coming together.  I have a personal asana and meditation practice, which inform how I live. You don't need to do the same. It's just something you might be interested in knowing. It does help with flexibility of both body and mind.