I have been around this lifestyle for nearly 30 years, my initial attraction to it was its total openness and honesty coupled with a complete non judgmental community. 

Do you have the need to be stripped down to be used for anothers total control and pleasure, through your complete use and abuse?

It all starts in the mind with that spark, the visual you have seen, the life experience, something read... that turns the giggles about fluffy handcuffs and "pound shop" whips into deeper fascination and intrigue... suddenly a lot more of your life makes sense, unexplained needs and desires begin to come into focus and are felt deeper inside... if this makes sense then you are likely to be the one I want....

Experienced male with diverse sexual appetite, I am seeking playful, sensual and adventurous fun with like minded female. Any special kinks you may have simply add to the erotic power we could share...dont be shy!!
I am genuine and honest, feel free to ask... I do not have a set list of demands and expectations as I have always found meeting someone new a learning and moulding process whereby the best control points are discovered in order to help the submissive grow.

My perfect sexual partner would be female (no males) open minded and keen to let herself go sexually physically and mentally in pursuit of that extra special life force. She should understand fully her objectification. Knows how to both laugh and cry. I would like her to be passionate and intelligent, capable of appreciating and conversing. I would like someone I can meet on a regular basis and who is as discerning as I am. I am looking for someone who does not see this lifestyle as a want but as a true need.

I can be chatted to via Kik..... jimuk69uk  leave me a message there if I am not online.