Collarspace

Exchange of power is what I seek, its not in the body, its in the mind, the heart and the soul. Its more than a state of mind, its a state of being. This is not a physical sexual thing, its a way of being. I have always led from the front and do not respond well to others trying to take control. Never have, never will and things generally tend to end badly when they do. I will do as I wish and I have no reason for justifying myself for it.

Taking you to your limit and then a little beyond is an exquisite pleasure, a headf**k, a power rush! Its sadistic, its perverse, its delectable, delightful, dark, degenerate, sometimes cruel, always pleasurable and most of all...its mine!

I am though more than the sum of my kinks. I have a life outside of this place. I am a man, a son. I enjoy life, I am socially gregarious, I dance, I laugh and joke, I love and hurt. I am quietly confident and I know myself. I know where I am and I know where I am going.

I love travel either at home or abroad, I enjoy motor sport and theater. I have an insatiable love of music.

Whilst I wouldnt be mistaken for Mr J Depp even at a distance, Im reasonably good looking, weathered a little, dress well, exercise, watch what I eat, non-smoker and make an effort to look good. I leave the leather flasher macs, tool belts and other lifestyle dress paraphernalia to others. I expect the same from those I am intimate with.