9/24/2017 5:26:53 AM: BDSM is not about sex.It's about intimacy.  It's about letting someone inside your head, and allowing them get to know the real you.  The most basic, carnal, animalistic you.  And in that process, you will probably come to learn a few things about yourself too.And BDSM is about power.  It's about giving up control; permitting someone else to have authority and influence over you.  Sex is an easy and blatant way of demonstrating that exchange of power, but there are so many other ways.Use your imagination.

9/20/2017 1:48:13 AM: Just to clarify...  I'm not JUST looking for a full-on relationship here.  I am also very open to short-term and even no-strings one-off meetings - after an appropriate getting-to-know-you period, of course.I'm not an idiot, so if I contact you and your profile is obviously incompatible with mine, don't immediately assume that I'm looking for anything too heavy.  Read my messages as well as the profile, and bear in mind that I may just be looking for something recreational.  I HAVE read your profile, I DO understand what you're looking for, and I AM taking it into account when I contact you...!

2/12/2016 3:04:42 AM: Point of note:  The first thing I do - the FIRST thing I do - if you approach me to talk, is to run your photos through TinEye and Google Image Search.  Likewise, if I approach you then I have already checked your photos.  If they throw up any hits, then I'm going to treat you with extreme scepticism until you come up with a damn good explanation of why your photos are on the net, and I'll be asking for photographic verification sooner rather than later.

3/3/2008 9:43:42 AM: It seems so often to be the case that the more that's offered, the less that's delivered in the end.  The more extreme and outrageous the claim or the offer, the quicker those offers evaporate and the profile with them.I seek and offer extreme.  To some - perhaps most - my profile may seem unrealistic or simplistic or superficial.  Well, that is your perception and everyone is entitled to hold an opinion.  But I will say to all who read this: I am genuine.  I do, truly, seek all the things that I describe in my profile.  I do truly believe that they are possible.  I recognise that I may not be able to find a girl who is willing - or able - to give all that I describe, but even someone who can give most of it would be quite sufficient to provide me with a lifetime of fulfilment and enjoyment.  And if she can gain the same fulfilment from her own submission, then all is well.  We seek perfection, but some degree of compromise is usually necessary and I AM a reasonable man, even though my profile may not give that impression.All that I require, when a girl approaches me or responds to my initial contact, is that she thinks seriously and deeply about what I have written.  That she reads my profile carefully and thoroughly, and that she looks long and hard at herself, and makes a genuine and considered decision as to whether or not she is able (and willing!) to give as much as I ask.  Perhaps what she wants doesn't square with what the thinks she is capable of.  In that case, talk to me.  Let's discuss my ideas, and her concerns, and see if there might be some way to work things out to our mutual satisfaction.  Perhaps my ideas fascinate her but, deep down, she really doesn't want what I describe, in which case she should be honest with herself and not talk to me, because I have no desire to take a girl to a place she genuinely doesn't want to go.  But, above all else, she must be honest with herself first, because only then can she be honest with me.  To be otherwise is to waste both her time and mine.What I offer is not an easy path for any girl to tread.  BDSM - in this form - is not the pretty-pretty kind of life presented in the Story of O or the Anne Rice novels or - since I first wrote this entry - the 50 Shades franchise.  This is hard BDSM.  This is the blood and sweat and snot and piss type of BDSM.  Here you will really come up against your true base nature, and have to face your deepest fears, and deal with them.  I will be there, to help and guide and support and fortify you, but I am also the Ringmaster in this circus of horrors.  I am your comforter, but I am also your tormentor.  I am your looking-glass, and the monster you see is yourself.I am a genuine Dominant, looking for a genuine girl, to explore ourselves and the Lifestyle to the fullest possible extent.  Stop and think about what that means before you come and talk to me.