i am seeking to be the distaff part in an FLR relationship - if you will, the male wife of a strong, controlling female husband. i am shy and insecure.  You will be strong and assertive.

i meet many who are not really strong and don't really understand what it is they seek. 

i am a good cook.  i can clean and generally take care of the house. i am old enough that i don't appreciate need or want children.

i have spent 40 years in my profession. i am looking forward to reaping the rewards of that long career, hopefully in the presence of a companion that will help me transition to a condition where fewer and fewer decisions would need to be made.  i enjoy music, photography, travel and good conversation. i do not smoke, but i do enjoy my wine, beer and whiskey.

i am not a masochist. In fact, there have been very few times in my life where i have experienced real physical pain. i do not seek pain. i do understand that my role in such a relationship involves being on the learning end of things, and that might entail discipline in the name of effective guidance.

Relationships such as this take time.  If you are not willing to invest the time, then please understand. i am really not looking for play sessions.

If anything you have read resonates, then drop me a line.  To begin a journey you must take a step. Or, if you are Cajun, First you have to make a roux.

On occasion, i have tried to send a message to someone and gotten a "Profile not found" response.  If, on the off chance, you try and send me a message and that happens, i have the same screen name on Yahoo and Gmail.

Please do not contact me with the intent of getting me to pay you money. You will waste your time. Additionally, i will not "prove" i am real by going to some other web site, signing up and establishing a profile. That does not prove i am real; it proves i am stupid and i am not. Also,  i am not interested in young girls.