Thank god an escape from Kentucky has opened up!

Why transwomen?  Generally speaking they are women who want to be women.  They are women who wish to be feminine.  I enjoy smart women and transwomen as a rule are pretty damn smart.

What I'm not looking for is a doormat.  I'm not looking for a women who wants to be forced into embracing their feminine side.  I hope I don't sound too judgmental about that but I want a woman who knows who she is and who is strong enough to start down this road.  I'm not looking for a woman who wants to be hurt.  Why would I want to mark or possibly injure my most prized possession?  I'm not looking for a woman who wants to be used by me and the neighborhood.  I hate to admit it but I don't share my most prized possession. 

What I'm not looking for is a woman who just wants to be locked up at home.  Who understands the difference between humiliation and degradation.  I need a woman who is comfortable with the idea of personal growth.  Who is comfortable with the idea of having something outside the home whether it's a part-time job, volunteering, or school.  Unfortunately, we can't all stay at home all day and play.  When we're done with life it would be nice to be able to say we did something deeper than "Well I was beaten and degraded for 20 years.  Does that count as using my time well?"

What am I looking for?  Believe it or not I want, nay need a woman with whom I could have a deep connection.  A long term relationship.   I'm looking for something along the lines of a 50s household.  A woman who knows this is something she wants.  Height and weight proportionate.  I'm not asking that she be totally passable at this time but if she is that would be great.  She needs to be able to laugh at the world around us. 

So much of this really depends on the woman.  Bottom line I start at the point of we are both equals but the man is first among equals.

I hope that this interests some of you!  Thanks for your time.

PS  If we do have the opportunity to chat on IM I do ask that as I give you my attention when we chat that you do the same.  There are few things as frustrating as someone who just disappears for minutes at a time without a word.  If you have other things to do that's fine we can chat later or not but I really have no time for rudeness. Thanks!