Collarspace

This is a new profile because I moved to a new state and the website isnt letting me update the zip code on my old profile - hardbodysub. The old one is viewable again after being down for a month when I tried to update it. I was reluctant to add photos and ination to this profile, because Im afraid the same thing will happen to it.

STRAIGHT SINGLE male seeking female dominant or switch.

While the role that excites me is that of submissiveslave, and thats what draws me here, there is more to me than that. My identity is not wrapped up in submission using the term as a noun makes no sense to me, hence I do not exactly identify as a submissive. A personal connection between the two of us is more important to me than the specific roles. Without a mutual attraction, theres no excitement, no reason to be doing this at all. I find great excitement in submitting to a woman, but only to an extraordinary woman who can entice and inspire me to submit.

What I can do for you or with you depends a lot on what you need and want. Its absurd to try to list everything since we dont know each other yet. Let me just say that although Im not good at everything, Im versatile, intelligent, a quick learner, and willing to tackle almost any task from the most mundane to the exceedingly complex. Regardless of roles, whether Ds or vanilla, I derive great satisfaction from pleasing my partner.

Who am I looking for? Someone guided by her own desires, rather than one who adopts boiler-plate protocols and cliches simply because thats the way everybody does it. A woman whose BDSM and vanilla interests have some overlap with mine. One who is DD free, as I am I dont want a relationship that puts either of us at high risk of disease. Finally, I have a youthful appearance and am in better physical condition than most men half my age. A woman who has respected and maintained her body is more likely to mesh with me than one who hasnt.

I have a life outside of this, an extensive education, and interests and responsibilities in the broader world it would be unrealistic to expect them to go away. The same is probably true for you. It will be a balancing act.

Theres a lot more to discuss in private with anyone who is interested after reading this far. Please feel free to send me a message.