The ultimate outcome which I am seeking is a dom bf/partner. The process may take a few years even.

The Kinks that are of most interest to me are mostly associated with muscle, submission, humiliation and control. That means kinks like watersports, scent play, chastity, eye contact restrictions, domestic chores, forced workouts, oral worship and bondage stress positions in the home. 

Face pictures available to people that ask.

Expectations

Willing to share a picture (face is not necessarily required)

Drug Free

Disease free, open to discussion of status of HIV

Non-Smoker

Consume a social level of alcohol or less.