person

About person

Power exchange, erotic humiliation and the D’s side of bdsm are the areas that most interest me. Other than the pain associated with a spanking by hand, riding crop or paddle I’m not into inflicting pain.
My approach is collaborative. I’m low key and believe in negotiation and setting limits.

If humiliation play is something you desire you will be integrally involved in planning any humiliation ideas and none will be used without your consent.

In a broad sense you will have the autonomy to decide what activities you will engage in and at what level of intensity. But you will not have the authority to dictate or guide events during a session. You could be required to engage in any activity you have consented to be within your limits.

A safe word will be available which will time out or stop an activity.

I’m divorced, honest, empathetic, consistent, fair and pleasant to be around. I am not harsh in any way.

You will need to be honest, respectful, obedient and cooperative.

I will always ask you to do something rather than command you to do something. Of course you will be expected to abide by any commitments you negotiate. For instance if you agree to be nude when we are alone, you won’t have a choice if I request you be nude. Of course you could elect to change your hard limits at any time…..and you would certainly have that ability. But I would also have the ability to sever our Dom/sub relationship at any time (as you would also). Commitments have consequences.

So long as we share common interests we should have the basis for a satisfying session or sessions. Your area of interest could be something as narrow as doing nude housework or as broad as all the interests I list alongside my narrative. Drop me a message.

I usually don't contact people that list Massachusetts or New Hampshire in their profile without specifying what part of the state they live in. Nor do I usually contact people with little in their profiles. But if you are one of those people feel free to contact me.