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Male Submissive, 41, Byram, New Jersey
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Female Submissive, 43, Wales
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Male Dominant, 71, rockford, Illinois
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About Perchen
Single ex-Master, looking to remove the "ex" from his "title".
Wishes to, initially, talk to females who wish to enter a LTR D/s and who are willing to relocate to the North of England (or are there already!).
Your experience is less important than your abilty to communicate
Your looks less important than your willingness to learn and grow under his control
Your age less important than your mental maturity
My criteria, you must be willing to meet face to face (vanilla) within a reasonable period of time chatting.
Note if you tell me you are at "BDSM Boot Camp" you instantly tell me that you are a fake.
Life is too short for time wasters so if all you seek is on-line then thats fine, its just not for me.
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It may shock some of you, but brace yourselves, some of us actually do read profiles, some of us do write a memo specifically to the person addressing what they say in thier profile.
I consider is common courtsey to reply, even if its to say "not if you were the last man on the planet matey"
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An additional criteria...
BDSM in first and foremost founded on total honesty - If you tell me are actualy in a different place from the one your profile says then as far as I am concerned you are a fake and a liar, I really dont believe that your granny in Nigeria is actually ill
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What does 24/7 actually mean?
Probably something different to each and everyone.
To me it means living with a person, where the D/s dynamic is always there but that doesnt mean what is going on is D/s, the environment can be totally vanila, we we are doing can be totally vanilla but the dynamic us still there, subdued, hidden but there
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Some of there "slave" profiles may be laugh out loud...
1) "No Limits" There isnt a slave alive that doesnt have a limit... the very words "no limit slave" tells me they are either fakes or very very niave
2) "for sale" - get a life.....
3) On-line - aka married
BDSM - even the M/s Dynamic is about a realtionship between two people, in real life and not just a scene from a cheap porn movie
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My thoughts on "Dominance"
It isnt about volume its about presence, the "aura" (cant find a better word!) that exists around some people
It isnt about a myriad of stupid rules who's sole purpose is to cause the sub to fail, that isnt being a "Master" thats just looking for an excuse to play.
Rules should exist to maintain and deepen the relationship, punichment should be something serious not play
A D/s dynamic exists 24*7 regardless of how vanilla the activity it is, it is the way two people relate to each other, how thier phyche's interact, you cant switch it off, all you can do is camoflage it
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