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About pepesir
Your fantasies are my reality... Are there feelings and sensations that you've only dreamt about? Maybe they are about things that are a little naughty or kinky? Perhaps these are wants and needs that you have been denying you have? Does your heart skip a beat thinking about how wonderful it would be to experience the sensation of a feather being run lightly over your entire body? Or maybe something with a little different sensation, like the warm glow that you get after a good old-fashioned bare-bottom spanking is more what you desire? Perhaps something even more intense, like a flogging, followed by being held in a tight and loving embrace afterwards? All of this is possible and more.
Perhaps your dreams include being restrained by cloth, ropes or even chains? Maybe you desire to be blindfolded, unable to see what is being done to you, or what is about to be done to you? Possibly you might hope to enjoy these things while your lover taunts your body with other sensations, like the burning coldness of a piece of ice run over your skin or the gentle caress of a hand or a finger here or there? It might be that you hunger to experience a more intense sensation, like tight body bondage or clamps placed on various body parts. These things too are possible.
Or do your dreams include yielding to another's will, serving them, filling their wants and needs and in turn having your wants and needs filled. Perhaps you desire the freedom that comes from this yielding... a comfort drawn from knowing that another is watching over you, controlling you, but always protecting you... cocooning you against harm ... Sadomasochism being and explosively contoversal topic? Maybe you simply yearn to serve, caring for another and deriving pleasure from that action? Finding a Kajira of Gor. With me, all of these are also possible.
Has your heart yearned for emotional intensity and a sense of belonging far beyond anything you've ever experienced before? Have you thought about how wonderful it would be to have a lover, partner and confidant who will take the time, and make the effort so that he knows you almost as well as you know yourself? Or perhaps, he might even end up knowing you better than you know yourself? I am that person... your lover, your partner... your Loving Dominant man.
Have you ever wondered what it might be like to be kept aroused and on the edge of orgasm for hours on end, with the overall need and intensity building anew with each passing moment? Imagine the tidal wave of release and the soaring sensation you would feel when you're finally allowed to orgasm! Perhaps it might even be so intense and overwhelming that you'd pass out. But, even if you did, you'd have nothing to fear, because when you awoke, you'd find yourself cradled gently, but firmly in my arms. If you're thinking that all of this is not possible, I tell you it is, because I have done it. I have been there, I have lived your fantasy... It is my reality... it is what I do and who I am. I have done these things and more, for many many years, safely, sanely and within the confines of several loving monogamous relationships. And for me, monogamy is the way it must be, "play" partners and flings have no appeal to me.
I have to be able to see a possible long term future with you in order to be able to use all of my skills, talents and energies the way they should be used, for our mutual fulfillment and enjoyment.
I am considered intelligent, romantic and honest, I am not your typical Dom, I achieve my pleasure knowing that what I am doing excites you, and once the trust is built, that both Dom and sub could achieve the true concept of pleasures in life and the lifestyle.
By now you're probably wondering about this man who says he can fill these dreams, wants and needs of mine. Who am I, you ask? Well, I'll be glad to tell you.
The vanilla side of me ..
I'm a tall SWM, 6 feet tall, 185 pounds, just an average looking guy. I just turned 61, but look much younger, with Lt Brown hair, I'm a kind and considerate person with a warm heart, and who is supportive and understanding. I'm a good listener and I'm patient and laid back about most things. I don't smoke or use drugs and I'm STD free. I am a light social drinker. Been a Dom in the lifestyle since 1983.
I'm well read both non-fiction and fiction. I like to do leathercraft to relax, I can make my own leather gear to be used. I'm a big movie buff and I like to go to the movies, especially when there's something good laying like, "The Sound of Music", "Shrek", "Harry Potter", any of the Star Wars, Star Trek or James Bond films and so much more! I like to go mountain bike riding, skiing (both snow and water), play golf, camping, but you'll have to ask me about my special brand of "roughing it". ;-)
When I go traveling, I like visiting European countries and would like to visit Australia in particular. Best country visited, so far, Turkey -- There's a lot of history there and no matter how much time you spend there, you can never get to see all the things there are to see. I can hardly wait to go again to Europe . . . perhaps we'll go together, that would be nice?
I like almost all kinds of music with the exceptions of screechy jazz, hip-hop and rap ( I like rap music, just when the singers open their mouth to speak, it gets bad). I especially like Classic rock and roll (Beatles, Stones, Herman's Hermits), Classical (Handel, Bach and Mozart - Mmmmmm!!! Mozart!), C&W and some big band music (Benny Goodman, Glenn Miller).
I have a pretty good sense of humor, which ranges from absolute slapstick to very dry British type humor to creative word play. Some of my favorite comedians are Robin Williams, Gallagher, Steven Wright, Redd Fox.
I know that you probably have a zillion more things you'd like to know, about me, as well as the things I mentioned and hinted at above. I will be glad to discuss all of them and more in our emails, IM's, phone calls and in person. I have nothing to hide and will be glad to tell you almost anything you might want to know.
After all, if you are the gal that I think you are, the one with whom I want to share my reality, why wouldn't I share these things with you? Let's talk about you for a minute or two... after all, you're very special and unique otherwise you wouldn't be reading this, right?
You're a warm and caring gal, someone who is down to earth and easy going. You are sweet, kind and understanding. You are a good communicator, preferring to quietly discuss difficult situations in an honest and forthright way instead of screaming or yelling. You're an intelligent and practical person, who is not intimidated by the challenges of dealing with hi-tech things like computers, VCR's and cell phones. You take pride in yourself and the way you treat others. You'll dive right in and get your hands dirty if it means learning something new.
Given a choice, you prefer a quiet night at home for two or a special night out for dinner and a movie, over the noise and insanity of clubs or bars. Am I doing okay so far? Am I right and you're still here? I'm hoping that you are either single, divorced or widowed. Hopefully you've either never smoked, quit or maybe need a little nudge to help you quit. You don't drink or have an occasional drink to be social. You've taken good care of yourself and are drug and disease free. You have already had some kids or you might want some or you just want to share intimate time with just one person. You share some of my wants, needs and interests.
After all, it is important for a couple to be able to share things in their lives, it's part of growing together. Beyond that, you may or may not have experienced some of the things I talked about above, or you may have experienced or want to experience something I didn't mention. I know you'll talk with me about this (pillow talk), there's no reason not to, because over the years, I've heard almost everything under the Sun and a few things that were strictly out of this world. ;)
Are you still here? (*smile*) (I thought you would be!) Has some of what I've written intrigued you? Wouldn't you like to know more? I would like to know more about you. Wouldn't it be a shame if you and I were destined to be together and we never talked or met? Shouldn't you at least write to me to find out more? Or share with me some more about you? Well, there's no time like the present to write, besides, I'm looking forward to your email. Talk to you soon!
D/s is not a vanilla hobby, its a Lifestyle.
To inflict pain for any reason other than to give pleasure is the only true perversion. |
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