PaulUKE

I've been using the term "Dumbiant" of late and having just re-found this, I thought I'd post it to clarify what a Dumbiant is. Hope you like it.

THE CODE OF THE TRUE DUMBIANT

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Many groups have their own code of honor. This is the code of the True
Dumbiants:

1. I AM A TRUE DUMBIANT, SO GET ON YOUR KNEES AND BLOW ME.

2. ALL SUBS MUST SUBMIT TO ME, OR THEY ARE NOT TRUE SUBS. SO GET ON
YOUR KNEES AND BLOW ME.

3. I SET ALL THE LIMITS AND CHANGE THEM AT WILL. SO GET ON YOUR KNEES
AND BLOW ME.

4. I AM ALWAYS RIGHT, ESPECIALLY WHEN I AM WRONG, SO ANYONE WHO
DISAGREES WITH ME IS A FAKE. SO GET ON YOUR KNEES AND BLOW ME.

5. I ALWAYS HAVE THE LAST WORD, AND IT's USUALLY A PUT DOWN OR A
PERSONAL ATTACK. SO GET ON YOUR KNEES AND BLOW ME.

6. NO MATTER HOW MUCH KNOWLEDGE OR EXPERIENCE ANOTHER HAS, AS A TRUE
DUMBIANT I MUST ALWAYS STAY ONE UP ON THEM OR SAY THEY'RE TALKING SHIT,
SO GET ON YOUR KNEES AND BLOW ME.

7. I AM GOD's GIFT TO HUMAN KIND. ANYONE NOT WILLING TO GET ON THEIR
KNEES AND BLOW ME IS NOT A TRUE LIFE STYLER.

8. HOWEVER, IF ANYONE IS WILLING TO GET ON THEIR KNEES AND BLOW ME,
I WILL TEMPORARILY SUSPEND THE ABOVE IF I FIND THEM ATTRACTIVE.

These people are more likely to be male than female and tend to be
unattached for some reason.

Well ..... offered some advice which "seemed" to be well received, just have to wait and see.

My advice is only how I would do things and is effected by My opinion, and let's face it .... we ALL have one of those !! I'm NOT saying that Mine is always correct to others, but it is to ME. It would have to be a damn good reason for Me to change My opinions but I'm always open to listen.

Saying that, here's something that I mostly agree with, a couple of things I don't but it's still worth posting ....... I think

The One
There are so many types of Masters and Dominants.
On one end of the scale, there is the type that believes none of it is about the submissive – it is all about Him.
She learns, modifies and serves, while he teaches, directs, corrects and trains.

And on the other end, there is the type of Master/Dominant that is:-

One that delves into who the submissive is.

One who probes, listens, and learns exactly:
what make her the way she is – her past experiences as well as her present ones.
what makes her ‘tick’
what turns her on
what thoughts does she have – about sex, submission, serving, men, women.
what drives her
what she feels
what hurts her and has hurt her
what does she love, need, desire, fear
what is important to her
All of it He learns, not to criticize or find fault with…
He learns for Their benefit.
He takes this knowledge and uses it, to positively effect their relationship
Actually modifies His own behavior accordingly (( To a point !! ))
To best utilize her hopes, dreams, fears, desires, needs, and loves in a way that
enhances their relationship,
empowers Himself, and truly enslaves.
He can get into her head like no other
He can read her like no other
He can lead her like no other
He can touch her like no other
In all ways - mentally, emotionally, physically, sexually, sensually, spiritually…
This type, can Dominate her mind, body, heart and spirit almost effortlessly.
And thus makes her submission, surrender, service effortless.
As with this knowledge,
He can become her MASTER – in all ways.
He can become her Dominant – in all ways.
He can enslave her - in all ways.
This type of Dominant/Master is simply.....

One who Knows

Sadly, I didn't write it.

Back at last !!

Lost a few details so had to come on with a new name etc. Must admit though, now I'm back I realised just how much I'd missed it !! Must be My pervy nature to oggle younger women lol

As ever, back to help where and when I can.