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About Paugh23fan
I have been interested in this lifestyle for a very long time.
I do not want to become a professional I do not seek attention from it. It is part of who I am it help me to grow as a person. after a day of being bitched at by my boss or Co. workers and feeling like I'm the scape goat because I keep quiet I like to go home and have some kind of control I do not want to interrupt her life I just want to know that I don't have to worry about being pushed into any corners, but also its a struggle for me to hurt a woman I was raised to believe its wrong and unforgivable so when I do its an internal struggle I can and do push past it however once I get past it, it feels good to know that I have someone who I don't have to worry about in the sense of putting up with anything, but I always keep in mind that I have a huge responsibility on my hand because she is never to be put in a position to be hurt in any serious way or to feel threatened and its my job to make sure that ,that does not happen. I have to read her face and know when she is truly worried or concerned and I can not just hurt her I have to let her know in someway the she is still cared for with a small word or a look.
I'm open to just chatting or what ever you may seek just ask and I will see what I can do (that does not mean I take on every sub who asks)
I'm a student of the human condition.
I have found that the best relationship between a sub and a Dom is when they have opposite roles in there day to day lives.
A Dom who is submissive in day to day life pushes himself to be a Dom and a sub tends who tends to be dominant in there day to day life pushes them selves.
when it tends to go bad is when the Dom is someone who seeks in day to day life to hurt and harm people or is already very controlling because they are not fight there own limits they are building a part that may go to far and a sub who is submissive in day to day life may be doing harm to there emotional state
I'm not an expert or a professional in this Field however I do know allot about the human mind and they way it works. for the right person or people this lifestyle can prove to be beneficial the Dom will learn to become more dominant in their day to day live as the sub will begin to tone dow
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