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About PathLighter
I do not want to collar. I am not looking for my one sub. I do not want to have sex.
What am I? I am an experimenter, teacher, student. I love restrained women, gags, the sub mind and learning what's it all about.
Anyway, let's chat sometime and let me know what's going on in your world. |
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Last night I discovered Nyotaimori (Body sushi). For those who don't know (I didn't), Nyotaimori is the practice of eating (usually sushi) from the body of a woman. The sushi is not in contact with the skin and all the models are cleverly covered although not by much. There is no interaction with the model, she is merely a serving dish. You can add bondage to the mix by tying the model to the table and gagging her in what ever arrangement you like. It sounds like a lot of fun to me. If anyone has tried or seen this in person, I would love to hear of your experience. |
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In this holiday season, please remember those that have a little less then ourselves and those that need a little more love. Smile at a perfect stranger or say hello to the person that you see everyday but never talk to. This is a hard time for some and just a little kindness may help them see that it might be worth sticking around a little while longer.
SEASON'S GREETINGS TO EVERYONE!!!! |
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Happy Halloween Everyone!!! |
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I try to post mostly advice that stems from my brief experience as a Dom and from my general common sense from just being a little older. True I am not some ancient wise man sitting on a mountain top waiting for young deciples but I have lived a little more than most.
If I am slow to initiate a meeting or drag things out, it is because I have learned to be careful which should be true for any relationship but especially this lifestyle. I have read some post from people who are upset because either a sub will not meet with them or suddenly changes their mind. I say good for them. My usual response when it happens to me is to tell them good luck and leave an open invitation for continued coorespondense. In my mind they are being cautious and wise. |
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Am I a real Dom? I don't even know what that is. I am a man with more Dominant traits than submissive traits. I am a man that has a little knowlege about how to be a Dom. That is all I can claim. |
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Sometimes a hello is just a hello. I know some people have problems with people not having photos. Believe me, I understand and respect that. I like reading the journals on here and I often send words of ecouragement or agreement. That is all it is. Don't read anything else into it. I'm old enough not to have to play with my works. Of course that only goes for me  |
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Ok, I'm going to vent a little.
Safe, Sane, Consenting. If these don't apply to your play, don't do it. Walking into a scene with a person you hardly know, letting them do something that you are not comfortable with and then because they are a "Dom" feeling that you can't back out is none of these.
People be safe and listen to that little voice in your head. Most of the time it is right even though sometimes the voice between your legs is telling you the opposite. I can't say it enough. There are real predators out there who just love it when you make it easy for them.
Ok, I'm done. I love BDSM and I want others to love it to but please do it the right way. |
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I am getting more and more into shibari. A friend showed me a simple (for him) breast tie and I think he called it a leg crab tie. It looked amazing and once he slowed it down for me it wasn't that hard. He used a red rope on a fair skinned sub and it looked amazing. I am really thinking hard on doing a whole photography spread with shibari. I think it would look great if I did it right. |
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I have been confronted too much lately by subs that have been preyed on by so called "Doms". Friday I met a woman that has a Dom that puts her down every chance he gets. I see on this very site woman who are treated in much the same way. BDSM is no excuse to treat someone as if they are less than human. It is even more important to treat someone with love and respect in a BDSM relationship. As a sub you are putting your trust in the hands of another and as a Dom you are excepting that trust. With that trust comes the responsiblity to love, protect and support your partner just like in any good relationship. Being a Dom does not give me permission to be abussive. Being sub does not mean you have to take abuse. |
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