I just had my first positive CM experience. I am not going to drop names, but I know she will probably read this.  Anyway, here it goes.

I returned to my hometown for a visit. This particular woman just happened to live near some of my relatives. We corresponded via CM to meet when I got into town. So we met.

She was gracious, articulate, charming, and straightforward in thought and conversation. She was intelligent -- extremely eclectic in her interests.  She was submissive but she also commanded respect. She was just "real" (at least that's the vibe I got).   

Anyway, it was just nice to not deal with pretentiousness.  I think I will see her again and just simply enjoy myself. 

Today's rant - Broke Ass Women

I have a problem with women who want someone to pay to play. If I wanted that, I would seek other and truly more reliable means of procuring pleasure.  But the really wild part is that they have no job, no manners, and no class. One case in point.

One subbie/slave told me that she wanted a Dom who inflict a little pain. I consider myself a smooth dom, so I'm not into rough stuff. In all fairness, she said that it probably wouldn't be a good match. I can respect that. I said "Let's meet over coffee or a light dinner and chat about it". Sounds reasonable, right? Here we go!  "I don't have a car. I don't believe in the financial bondage of a car payment".  I reply "OK, I can either pick you up or meet you someplace nearby".  "It's too far to walk" Hmmm OK. "So how do you get to work?"  "I work from home". Hmmm OK " What kind of work do you do?"   Zzzzzzzzzz (Long , slumbering silence) = broke ass. Now I'm sensitive to the plight of the unemployed. Any of us can fall into that situation. Don't play games with a Dom. Time is too valuable.

I have a couple of more of these stories. it's late and I'm sleepy. I will save them for another time. CM is much fun. The phrase "for Entertainment Purposes Only" truly applies.

This is my first journal entry for CM. I'm just making some quick comments about some observations -- sort of Andy Rooney style :-)

1.  Is it me or are there just too many "babies" on here?  I see a lot of extremely young people on here who are either calling  themselves sub, slaves, or doms. When did they find the time to gain that kind of experience?  

2.  Out of fun, one day, I tried to chat with this wild freaky woman. She was into heavy bondage and submission, slavery,  bestiality, golden showers, etc. -- a total freak.  She said she was a total slut.  Now get this! She found out that I was black and proudly stated "I don't screw <expletive> N*ggers".  I guess sluts do have their limits after all. :-)

3.  I had an email exchange with a sub/slave(at least that was her story). Being the polite guy that I am, I sent a simple "hello" message.  Her reply was sarcastic and extremely acerbic. In so many words, she told me that I wasn't a proper Dom and didn't know how to treat her. Wow, she got all of that from a simple hello!  Since it was a truly WTF moment, I sent back my reply, which I challenged her thoughts. She promptly blocked me. I've left out a loot of details, but I save the email exchanges. One day I will share them -- just to get some opinions.

4.   A woman puts pictures on her profile of her being screwed, tied down, ass up in the air, nude, etc.. For a man, that implies serious sexual connotations. Isn't strange that when women do this, they have the nerve to say that all a man wants is sex? Duh, isn't that an open invitation?

I guess my point of my first journal is this. We are all supposedly mature adults seeking those with similar proclivities.  We all know our roles. What's wrong with having a little class in our communications? Why engage in subterfuge?  Anyway, this is just a quick journal. Meanwhile, I will keep on chuckling about my great CM experiences.