This is a half-formed idea... maybe I'll find someone; maybe I won't.
I'm looking for a kind of partner-in-crime, play-partner, fellow sub and mate all rolled into one. I've got some great online friends that I talk to, and some people I meet up with occasionally... but being a male sub into BDSM can be a lonely business a lot of the time. So I'm looking for a male sub/switch, who's kinda bi/curious, to share my journey with.
I'm not looking for a boyfriend, sub or master - this is something very different. I'm looking for someone who lives in the London area to be my BDSM partner-in-crime. Someone who I get on with as a mate, but also someone who's bi-curious. The idea is that we'd be switch to each other, but both sub to anyone else. We'd explore each other's bodies; find out how to take each other to heaven and to hell.
But the best thing is that together, we'd be more experienced and we'd offer something new to Dommes... 2 cute sub guys, both experienced and totally used to playing with each other's bodies... we'd get so many more offers than either of us would get on our own! It's way easier to go to events, clubs, munches and to meet people that way if there are 2 of you.
But it's also having someone to hang out with - going over to each other's houses on random evenings, surfing the web, chatting to interesting people together, playing with each other's bodies, thinking of all those little ways we can put an evil grin on a Domme's face...
Potentially looking for a gym-buddy to keep fit with... which, again, is pretty important when you're looking to meet people! I'm a great believer in keeping fit. And it could be fun to be teasing and orgasm control buddies... maybe locking each other into chastity occasionally just to keep things interesting ;)
So, who am I interested in? These are just guidelines... if you think you fit the bill, or you'd like to chat, please get in touch - it's always good to meet people!
- Around my age range... probably 20-28ish. But how we get on is way more important than age!
- Attractive - cute, with a nice body.
- Open to experimenting, with at least a bit of experience in sex and BDSM... enough not to get too nervous doing things r/l!
- Bi or bi/curious (preferably bi, so you can show me the ropes ;)
- Not the type to visit pro-dommes
- Kinky and dirty-minded
- Understands how important presentation (online and in person) is to keeping Dommes happy... and keen to keep us both in shape and looking great!
- Lives local-ish to London, ideally... but happy to talk to people further afield!
- Preferably... have their own flat/room/house etc. I'm in a shared hosue, and it's cool to come back to mine - but a change of scenery is nice every so often!
- Friendly, good with people, up for chatting and going out - it'd be cool to make this a mates thing as well as a BDSM thing! People into alternative/indie type music are especially welcome :)
- Interested in teasing and orgasm denial... and curious about chastity would be a plus!
So... it would be great to hear from you if you think you're looking for something similar. I have pics if you want to see them, and I'm always up for going for a coffee/drink to get to know people better. Hope to hear from some of you guys soon!
