Parthk

Hi,

I'm Parth and a relatively experienced online dom.
I'd describe myself as gentle because I value the aspects of control and instructions more than humiliation and degradation. Maybe you've never been a sub before and are curious, maybe you've already had some experiences. Either way, I'll set out this invitation for you to write me if you're interested.

Since this is also a post for unexperienced or curious subs, I'll tell you what being a dom means for me:

Trust and respect are propably the most important aspects in a dom/sub relationship. Everything depends on them. Before we get started, I'll need to know your kinks and more importantly, your limits. In case I ever overstep these, we'll agree on a safeword that tells me you mean it. I heard a lot of stories of subs getting abused because their dom didn't respect their limits. This not only ruins all the fun for both parties but can also cause emotional problems. Apart from the direct dom/sub interaction, I'd also like to build a personal relationship with you. Talking about everyday problems, our goals and desires, everything and anything, basically becoming friends is important to me as well.

Control is one of the most exciting aspects in a dom/sub relationship. Letting someone else control various aspects of your life can be a lot of fun. Having this sense of my presence looming over you all the time. You'll think about me often, maybe watch your smartphone because I could write you a message any moment and give you a task or set up a rule. I'll be with you constantly, subconsciously, always one text away. I won't control every aspect of your life though, I just like to spice things up. Make your everyday life more interesting. Maybe I'll tell you to snap a naughty picture for me in the office toilet, maybe you'll have to take off your panties while still wearing the short dress I made you wear that day. I'm pretty creative, so brace yourself ;)

Rules are a really fun part for me. I like to set up various rules that change over time. On one day you might have to edge yourself every time you use the bathroom, on another day you might have to wear a plug to work. You're going to a birthday party? Let's see how it works out when you have to turn that vibrator on for 3 minutes for every time you shake someone's hand. Rules are a way for me to have fun even when I'm not directly involved.

Playing with you when we both have time is the counterpart to the aforementioned rules. We'll have regular play sessions where I'll give you direct instructions on how to touch yourself, what toys to use and when (or if) you're allowed to cum. I'll try to get as many of your kinks covered as possible, but I'll also have my way with you - after all, I'm your dom. Ideally, you'll have a lot of sexual tension built up over the day before we start playing (I'll make sure about that ;) ) so I'll have you squirming and begging for permission to cum. I love making my subs edge and push them to their limits, so be prepared for that.

Communication is most comfortable via kik or any other messenger that lets you send pictures and videos but keeps your anonymity intact. Later we might move on to Skype for direct play sessions.

Interested? I could write a lot more, but I don't like monologues, so if this post made you want to try it out or if you're just curious and have a few questions, just go ahead and send me a message! I won't bite :)