Have you ever known someone for a while, to speak to or just nod in the street ?, then one day you see them in a different setting and you get such a shock.

It's happened to me very recently, a very nice girl I've spoken with many times came out to me that she's a Domme lol, can you imagine her surprise that a, I wasn't shocked and b, I'm a Dom, we had a nice chat about our slaves etc and she is a top class Domina, so I told her about C/M and she has just opened a profile on here, check her out Guy's she's stunning and as it turns out very experienced, we are going to double up on sessions for each other too.

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My newbie slave atiya had her very first playtime today, nothing hard and fast, just the first time she has experienced anything like bdsm play, I started her off with a bit of floor cleaning naked of course (pics on my profile soon)a little forced masturbation whilst I watched her and a light to medium spanking.......

Then I turned the pressure up just a little, a bit of hair pulling and nipple pinching quite hard, I changed my persona to a bullying Dom look and whispered in her ear and laughed at her pain, bless her she started to panic a little and cried, she was very vulnerable and as it was her first experience of anything like this I eased up and brought her down again, hugged her and reassured her that she was ok and that she had done very well considering this is her first time ever.

So my dear sweet little slave atiya, your Master is proud of you and proud to be your owner, well done indeed my girl.     PM1. x 

WHY OH WHY...... do I keep reading profiles from slaves who call themselves "worthless" ??,  If you are worthless why would anyone want you as a slave ??, it doesn't or in my opinion shouldn't make a Dom/me sit up and think " hey there's one for me" because here's the rub if they do think that then A, they don't want a slave, they want something to abuse and stick their cock in, B, they don't know what they're doing and the chances are they will fuck it up.

Surely a slave who has qualities, education, household skills, an inner urge to serve and please is of much more use to an owner, someone who can think and remember the needs/wants of her Master, be ahead of the game by serving and behaving in a way that pleases him before even being asked/told to do it.

Sure withn playtime if it's your thing to be told your a worthless piece of crap etc that's all good but unless I'm missing something it can't be your true opinion of yourself, if it is you need a doctor not an owner in my opinion.  PM1.

I've just this evening taken under consideration a brand new slave called atiya, she is totally new to the lifestyle and very enthusiastic, it's really nice to see a newbie stumbling to find her slave feet, she has all the attributes I look for in potential slaves and I'm very happy to have found her.

We have been friends for a year or so and it's really surprising to both of us that we have discovered the lifestyle is a shared interest, she's understandably nervous but with guidance she will make a top draw slave I'm sure of that, I'm really looking forward to watching her progress, to guiding her to full bloom.