There are submissives, slaves with limits, slaves with few limits & slaves with no limits. Let's not forget those that are naturally born to be subservient. Also, just not to be biased. There are Masters, Doms, Dominants, Owners, Daddy's, Trolls, & Posers.

It isn't easy to differenciate any of these just by online chatter alone. There has to be a moment in time when either meet in face to face interaction. Remember that there are some out there that just wish to fantasize online rather than to really live this lifestyle.

To some this is just a game that can start & end with a click of a button. While others live & even thrive for this lifestyle. A bit of friendly advise, ask questions. Ask a lot of questions. The same questions Y/you might ask in a face to face meet. It's getting kinda sad that because of those fantasizers many are needing to have & collect references. But how can you provide references? If in a "vanilla" relationship Y/you just break all ties with the significant other. So if Y/your "lifestyle" relationship ends, how would O/one keep a reference of that partner?

Just because the "lifestyle" can be a bit more complex in certain manners than "vanilla" why would a break-up be different? A break-up is a break-up, kinda like being released. It is an end to something that was.

Also, thread carefully when looking at profiles. There are many out there that claim to be a "title" which T/they really aren't. Look deeply into what the person is saying & how they say it. Measure T/their responses. Notice the lack of response as well. Sometimes saying nothing at all can really tell Y/you what Y/you really need to know.

Just saying, that if W/we as avid lifestylers can't help each O/other, then what are W/we really telling O/one another???

Sincerely,

slave paradox