Pankas

Understanding your place

As a Dominant, my task is to protect, guide and teach.

But how do I guide a submissive unless I kow where she wants to go. There are those that say well that is the Dominant's decision, to make her what he wants.

On this I disagree, this is a long term relationship, whether it be 24/7 D/s, online, or vanilla on the outside and BDSM in the bedroom. As this is a relationship, both partners have an equal say in setting goals on where they feel the relationship should be headed.

It is our job together to set the course, and my responsibility to guide you down the path and teach you what you need to know to get there.

So where does it start, with some homework...