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Male Submissive, 33, jur
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About pangyan
Finding your "one" is a bit like putting together a jigsaw puzzle. Each person has several puzzle pieces, some of which are more important than the others and none of the puzzle pieces can be changed. If your relationship has a chance at being something beautiful, the most important pieces need to fit together.
Here are my puzzle pieces:
I'm an intelligent, passionate and loyal man looking for a passionate, sane, loyal and deeply submissive woman. My definition of the word sane (which I've stressed) is simple: Respect yourself and submit out of love rather than fear and insecurity. If you are opinionated and outspoken, that's fine. If you're shy and reserved, that's fine as well. What you MUST want is to be in a relationship that is healthy, open, honest and monogamous; one where each person pushes the other to improve their lives and the relationship.
I have a good career, and I know EXACTLY what I want with my life. I have this need to make an impact on my friend and the world in a positive way and that's a large part of what drives me.
What I really want is someone reasonably intelligent who I can form a connection with. Without that connection, everything else is meaningless.
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Desire is a funny thing. For years, my best friend has teased me about wanting a woman who is both totally submissive and yet a strong, modern woman. I never flat out told him those words, but he was able to intuit something that even I've kept hidden from myself.
What this translates to is simple: I want someone who respects herself no matter what dynamic she wants with her man.
Whether you label yourself as a slave and want to relinquish all control or if you want a vanilla life and just want to submit in the bedroom; without respect you really aren't making a choice. You're letting someone else dictate who you are.
Of course circumstances sometimes get the better of all of us, but keep your respect with you at all times.
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