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About PanErosPlus
First, I am a Big & Bold Dominant (meaning I like to take charge in the bedroom) Male that has Extreme Passion.
I created the name PanErosPlus by combining the name of Pan: Greek God of Male Virility and Sexuality with Eros: Greek god of lust, love, and intercourse. Erotic love, passion, sex are all major elements of my personna. Plus: The Plus is the addition of the traits of Lempo a Finnish demon that is associated with frenzied precarious sex and adding the traits of Chou-Wang the Chinese God of Sodomy. Yes, I enjoy all the aspects of anal play and anal sex.
Therefore, Pan+Eros+Plus equals a male that has extreme passion and horniness and loves all aspects of sex!!
Ability to Travel: I am self employed and semi-retired from my business. Therefore, I have the time and means to travel (within reason) and I am willing to do so for the right woman and for the right circumstance.
My Personality: I am what the Myers Briggs Personality Indicator calls an Introverted iNtuitive Thinking Perceiver (INTP) or an Extraverted iNtuitive Thinking Perceiver (ENTP). If you want to get to know me better you can look those terms up on the internet; or, you can contact me and ask me questions; or, you could do both. Both is the method that I recommend.
It is extremely exciting for me to have a woman squirming and pushing her hips upwards trying to get some type of penetration as my hands and lips travel over her body.
It is extremely exciting for me to feel a woman shiver with small anticipatory waves before any penetration has ever taken place. In fact, much/most of my thrill is in taking a woman to orgasm--using what ever method(s) or assuming whatever role the woman wants and/or likes to achieve that end--multiple orgasms.
I have no ego when it comes to the use of toys, my tongue, my lips, my teeth, my fingers to achieve that end--no ego whatsoever to achieve the desired goal of achieving those orgasms for the woman.
I love for a woman to suck my c***, to take me deep in her throat and swallow my c**. I love to f*** a woman so hard that my b***s slap her a** (if i am on top) and slapping her p***y (if i am doing her doggy style). I also love to have a woman on top of me with my hard throbbing c*** deep inside her as she sets the pace.
I have no problem with blindfolds, spankings, and restraints if the woman wants and/or likes those things and lets me know that she wants any or all of them. Yes, we will mutually agree upon which, if any, of these activities are acceptable to you--the woman--during our play as your trust in me builds. Neither party is asked to do or forced to do anything that they have not requested from the other or indicated to the other that they want. The truth be told, I like the dominant role very much. And, these activities are a big turn-on for me; but, if you are a passionate, hot, wet woman, not all of them are essential requirements for us to have an excellent time together.
My Ideal Person:
Size , age, looks and race are not major factors in what I look for in a woman. I must "mentally" connect with her. My ideal woman is intelligent, witty, extremely passionate, gets very wet, is sensual, and is open to exploring all aspects of her sexuality after trust with me is built.
My True Fetish: It is the feel, taste and excitement of a very sensual, passionate and orgasmic woman--that is, my true fetish is the total excitement and thrill I get in taking a woman to orgasmic levels to which she has never before been--and then a step beyond that.
To accomplish that any act that has mutual consent is fair game for both of us. Therefore, if a woman agrees there is no part of her body or my body off limits to achieve that orasmic level for you the woman. That is my true love, my true thrill, my true fetish.
PROFILE UPDATE AS OF 12/27/2010:
I do not know how exciting I am but I do know what I like. A few months ago, a submissive woman I met sent me the following as a testimonial after our first meeting--she did it on her own--I did not ask for it: "If given the opportunity to meet, do not pass it up! He is everything he says and more! I left weak in the knees, and very well satisfied! This man is the most knowledgable, uninhibited and passionate man I have ever been with. He understands a woman's needs--be she a submissive woman such as myself or a "vanilla" woman. I definitely look forward to being with him again very soon!" I would hope I would leave you weak in the knees and feeling the same, also, whether you are a "submissive" woman or "vanilla". So, no time like the present--when do you want to meet? (Note: No doubt I would still be seeing the woman that sent me the above testimonial and actively looking here; except, she has moved to Arizona for a much higher paying federal job with Homeland Security.)
PROFILE UPDATE AS OF 12/30/2010:
ALSO, I HAVE FOUND THAT IF I REALLY "GET INTO A WOMAN" AND WE HAVE ENTERED INTO AN AGREED UPON RELATIONSHIP, I DO NOT SHARE HER SEXUAL "FAVORS" WELL WITH OTHERS--MY PERMISSION FOR HER TO BE WITH OTHERS FOR SEXUAL PURPOSES IS IMPORTANT TO ME. MY PERMISSION WILL BE BASED UPON WHY SHE WANTS TO BE WITH SOMEONE ELSE SEXUALLY, IS THIS SOMEONE ELSE A PAST OR CURRENT "FRIEND" OR SOMEONE NEW TO YOU, HOW OFTEN THE TWO OF US CAN GET TOGETHER AND HOW WELL I AM SATISFYING HER NEEDS. AS FOR ME, I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A HAREM--BUT ONE WOMAN THAT I TRULY MESH WITH AND SATISFIES MY NEEDS AND I HERS."PERMISSION" I TALK ABOUT HERE JUST CONCERNS SEXUAL MATTERS WITH OTHERS. IN NO WAY DOES A MATURE WOMAN NEED MY PERMISSION TO MEAINTAIN MEANINGFUL FRIENDSHIPS AND ACQUAINTANCES. I AM NOT A CONTROL FREAK! I AM A DOMINANT MALE.
PROFILE UPDATE AS OF 12/30/2010:
Thoughts on Dominants, Masters and Their submissives and/or slaves: A true Dominant or Master--there is a difference between the two--shall take pride in the fact that a woman has chosen to devote herself the satisfaction and fulfillment of his desires. Just as she, in return, can take pride that such a man has chosen her, above all others to provide that fulfillment. For openers, the female should decide that she may actually be a true submissive or a true slave--there is a difference between the two. She then must find the courage and commitment to put herself in the hands of a true Dominant or Master. She must know that at that precise moment her option to make choices will end. He will do what he wants to do, completely apart from her preconceived ideas.
I am not necessarily referring to physical discipline, and I am most definitely not referring to the extremes of physical discipline. The true Dominant or Master knows if his woman is a submissive or a slave. There are always limits, and the true Dominant or Master knows what they are. He also knows that those limits are different for every submissive/slave. But he also knows that regardless of those individually determined limits, every submissive/slave should at least once be forced to go one step beyond what she believes she can endure. A Dominant or Master should do what pleases him. The secret is to know the submissive/slave well enough so that while pleasing himself, he also provides her with fulfillment. But he should also once in awhile take his submissive/slave (even for a brief moment) slightly beyond her own self-conceived limits. But in doing so, he must take care not to really hurt her. Again he must know the submissive/slave well. In short, a submissive/slave should, once in awhile, be forced to beg to plead, "Oh God, please stop!" But after every session, a submissive/slave should also, if only just to herself, always say, "Oh God, I want him to use and have me that hard again!" As I said, it doesn't have to be physical discipline. If the female is lucky, she may someday find a Dominant or Master who is also an expert at sensual "torture." If you, as a submissive or slave, have never experienced this, you may not believe it, but a Dominant or Master who knows the art, and who is smart enough to learn what kind of a woman he is dealing with, will be able to "torture" her with out hurting her at all! The human body can voluntarily withstand only a certain level of sensual pleasure or sensation. That is why a man, when he has an orgasm, usually stops moving, because he just can't stand the sensation of having the tip of his penis stimulated while he is cuming. That's also why a woman who has a true, full orgasm also usually stops moving, or arches her body and pulls her body taut, or fights or cries out or curls into a ball or tries to pull away or push you away. It is not that it hurts. It is just that the pleasure is unbearable! But suppose a woman were tied and exposed and helpless. And suppose that a man knew her well enough to be able to regularly bring her to full orgasm. And then suppose the Dominant or Master did that and kept her there right at the peak for perhaps five minutes or ten or even twenty minutes! Imagine being at the peak of an orgasm that didn't stop. Imagine straining at your bonds and screaming and pleading and begging for him to stop, and imagine him being good enough and strong enough to ignore the screams and to keep that sensual "torture" going on and on, because it pleases him to hear the screams and begging him to stop but not until he chooses to, for himself. This same principle is true of actual physical discipline, for those Dominant/submissive or Master/slave relationships where true discipline is involved. Suppose that a submissive/slave could, without being bound, voluntarily withstand thirty lashes of a belt across her ass and/or back. But then suppose she was bound, arms stretched high over head, her body naked and helpless, and her Dominant or Master begins her "test." And because she is proud, and because she wants to provide her Dominant or Master with as much pleasure as possible, she does not actually "break" until after forty lashes, but then she begs him to stop. If he is a true Dominant or Master, and if it really brings him pleasure to continue, he should not stop. Perhaps he should continue for another five lashes, or maybe even ten, depending on his pleasure, of course, but also based on the knowledge he has, through experience, of just how much his submissive/slave can really endure, not simply what her body tells her she can endure. There is a difference. If the Dominant or Master is wise and has been accurate in his assessment of his submissive/slave's true stamina, the submissive/slave will realize that she actually did endure it after all. Even more important, she will be proud that she was able to provide her Dominant or Master with that additional pleasure, and the next time perhaps she won't beg until after fifty lashes. But of course the Dominant or Master may not stop then, either! Dominant/submissive and Master/slave can be the most exciting form of sexual foreplay ever experienced. Every "Dominant/submissive" and "Master/slave" relationship should be based on a profound and deeply satisfying sexual relationship. Every meeting should include (and usually conclude with) some form of sexual activity that is satisfying to both. But that, of course, is generally true of every deep male/female relationship. So what makes this any different? The difference lies in the submission of one and the dominance of the other. That, of course, is what your own fantasies have been based on. In effect, you say you have dreamed of " submitting" yourself to a man, allowing yourself to be rendered helpless, so that he can "rape" you. And that act of submission, you say, would enhance the excitement and pleasure you would derive from the sex act. (Indeed, the truth may be that this is the only way that you would be able to derive real pleasure from sex.) But if this is as far as you've gone in your fantasies, you may well be asking yourself, "What is all the rest about?" Why does he/her talk about prolonged sexual teasing and torture? And what about real discipline... actual pain, even if only at a very minor threshold level? Would a Dominant or Master really whip me? Could you really whip her? I have no idea, but the simple fact is that all these things, carefully selected and based on each partner's individual reaction, can be part of what becomes a much greater and much more rewarding and much more fulfilling sexual relationship. Sex, without some form of mutual love or deep feelings, is of little meaning and that, in turn, requires each partner to try to give the other as much pleasure as possible. For a submissive/slave that means "giving" herself to her Dominant or Master, for his pleasure. The total submission of her mind and body are her gifts to him, for him to do with as he chooses, and he takes great pleasure in that gift. Every Dominant or Master is different, of course, but in general, takes tremendous pleasure in imposing dominance and will upon a submissive female, both mentally and physically. Using both her mind and body to demonstrate power over her. Make her think and feel like she has never felt before. Forcing her to experience the furthest extremes of sensual and physical sensations. Making her beg to stop either the pleasure or the pain. Best of all, the male should love watching her face and her expressions as she realizes that, despite her pleas, he is not going to stop, at least not right that minute. And, finally, he should love watching her recognize his dominance over her, and then watching her resign her mind and her body to accept the previously unacceptable ... all for his pleasure! Through all of this, and governing all of this, is the overriding "love" that he should feel for her and, in turn, it is her knowledge that he does care for her deeply, and the trust that that knowledge gives her, that allows her to give him that marvelous gift of her mind and body. But what about the submissive one? What pleasure does she get? Again each is different, but there are some common denominators: First, a "submissive/slave" must deeply trust and deeply care for her Dominant or Master. She should truly want to give him pleasure. And so, for most submissives/slaves, the first pleasure is the very deep pleasure derived from the act of giving ... a very profound pleasure because the gift she gives is also profound. .... She gives herself! Second ( although there are some exceptions), a submissive female usually derives tremendous intellectual, sensual, and ultimately, sexual pleasure from the experience, assuming, of course, that the Dominant or Master is really gifted and sensitive and understanding. I assure that I have only scratched the surface. The Dominant or Master should be able to teach the submissive/slave things about herself she had never dreamed of, exposing her to sources of pleasure of a kind and a level and an intensity she had never imagined!! The Dominant or Master should explore every part of her mind and body, and should ultimately discover the keys to her deepest pleasures. It may be strictly sensual. There may be certain special parts of her body that, properly stimulated, turn on all her sexual senses. It may be just the bondage and helplessness itself, together with her ability to commit herself to it. Most submissive women derive tremendous sexual pleasure simply from being bound. (Almost all of them become lubricated and ready for sexual intercourse while in bondage.) She may find pleasure in pain. And if she does, it may be just a certain level of pain, or pain applied just to a certain part of her body. Many submissive people derive the most intense and exquisite sexual pleasure from the forced imposition of physical discipline, even to the point of orgasm. You should know that "discipline" doesn't mean simply the whip. (Although, indeed, that phrase simply "the whip" is totally misleading. There are literally hundreds of different kinds of whips, each capable of being used in a hundred different ways, so that in just this one "simple" area, there are an infinite variety of ways available to a knowledgeable Dominant or Master to impose an equally infinite variety of torments.) But there is so much, much more .... endless means, endless targets, endless degrees. To a really imaginative and experienced Dominant or Master, a marvelous and exquisite and almost limitless choice is available. But he must also have the sensitivity and the understanding and, yes, the love, to choose the right ones. If he does, he will be successful in fulfilling his role as a Dominant or Master. He will provide pleasure for himself, of his own choosing, but he will also provide his submissive partner either extreme pleasure or total psychological fulfillment or, often, both, depending on her own special nature and needs. Then there is the whole area of submission without bondage. A true Dominant or Master, using proper training, can teach a woman to be totally submissive without putting her in bondage. If you really have accepted a man as your Dominant or Master, you should want to totally obey him without being "forced" If he orders you to strip, you will strip. If he orders you to kneel, you will kneel. If he orders you to stand before him with your legs apart and your arms stretched high above your head, and not to move, you will do as he orders. And if while you are standing there, he chooses to whip you, you still will not move. And if he orders you to count the lashes, you will count them for him. And if he orders you to kneel, naked next to his bed while he sleeps and to remain there, instantly ready too serve him in any way should he awake, you will kneel there, silent and naked and ready, and you will stay there. And if he does not awake until morning, you will still be there ... still kneeling .... still naked .... still ready. But then a wise Dominant or Master will order you to join him, and he will acknowledge the great pleasure your obedience has given him, and he will reward you with that special marvelous pleasure of your own that he knows so well to give you. So what's this all about? A wonderfully elaborate, infinitely varied, terribly exciting series of scenarios, carefully and lovingly selected and orchestrated by the Dominant or Master to provide both himself and his submissive partner with the most exquisite and profound emotional and sexual pleasure, each scenario based on, taking advantage of, and dramatizing the dominant nature of one and the submissive nature of the other. It is of course, a tremendous challenge. First, there's the challenge to the submissive to accept and endure the torment of bondage and discipline by which her chosen Dominant or Master tests her and through out which he realizes the most profound pleasure. (A weak or sniveling "submissive/slave" provides little pleasure for a Dominant or Master) Of course, there are limits and, of course, they must be respected. But there will be those special times when, after being queried by her Dominant or Master, the proud submissive will take as deep a breath as her chains will permit, look him in the eye, and in her own special way and words say, in effect, "I'm here for your pleasure. Please don't stop until you are totally satisfied." That is the challenge of the body. But there is also the challenge of the mind and the spirit. After all, a man is physically stronger than a woman, so physical domination (in its rawest sense, at least) is easy. But intellectually it's a different matter because in an ideal Dominasnt/submissive or Master/slave relationship, both partners should be equal in intellect, so that the dominant and submissive roles result from conviction and choice rather than imposition. In addition to being physically dominant, a "Dominant or Master"- while not intellectually superior, must also be intellectually dominant ... dominant by nature and spirit and will .... choosing to dominate while the submissive chooses to understand and appreciate and ultimately submit to that will. That is a much more subtle and a far more difficult challenge. But you need two things: 1. A Dominant or Master who really knows how to lead the submissive/slave to the far most pleasures. 2. A submissive/slave with the courage to take the first step to try it. |
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