PaloAltoDom

A tri-lingual, well-traveled, and highly-educated (PhD in philosophy) dominant male, I am presently attending an elite law school in the San Francisco Bay Area. Self-aware and self-controlled, I have a mischievous yet affable demeanor and am turned on by the idea of a long-term patriarchal relationship, in which I dominating an intelligent and attractive woman, through a combination of physical restraint and both subtle and not-so-subtle humiliation.

I’m not looking for a “slave,” if that means a relationship centered on tedious and repetitious protocols. Routine is a bummer. Much of the time, we’ll look like a regular couple. You won’t address me “Sir” or ask my permission before taking a step. But you’ll nevertheless feel my firm hand lurking in the background, and know that you are being judged, and that misbehavior, disobedience, or disrespect will be remembered and punished.

This is not to say I discourage a little sass once in a while. Submission is an act, not a state of being, which means you can most feel submissive in being MADE to submit. So I certainly wouldn’t mind meeting someone who can get a little feisty, a little bratty—someone who sometimes forgets her place once in while and so needs to be REMINDED of it.

You should feel comfortable being controlled chastised publicly and being forced to dress very sexy for me, both at home and out. If you’re not a good cook, you should be willing to learn.

In return for surrendering yourself, you’ll be taken care of and be made to feel special, the protagonist in an unpredictable and never-dull adventure. I’ll be stern at times, but tender moments have their place too. There will be times when I take your naked, quivering body into my reassuring embrace and, looking into your cowering eyes, tell you that you're a good girl.