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You know... it has never been my intention to become really good at online dating. And I'm still not: I am a lousy penpal - so please be within 70 miles and willing to meet fairly early-on, please don't write to me if what's here in my profile suggests we'll be a poor match, and please either have pictures posted (I sympathize, but I bit the bullet and did it) or do me the courtesy of attaching at least one pic - and not of your pink bits - to your email. Also, a blank profile is disappointing. Please give us ladies SOME reason to want to correspond with you...?
I recently got back onto this site after several years' absence. I've been trying vanilla dating and have yet to make a great connection, plus a friend found a fabulous Dom on here, so I decided I'd try back here again. :)
I'm very sensual, in every sense of that word, so I'm visual, tactile, and have an excellent sniffer. ;) Pheromones and chemistry are important, so if emails, pictures and profiles suggest that we're a potential match, I'm gonna wanna meetcha! I'm really not interested in being 'Dommed' over the internet or phone. Also, my preference is for 'natural Doms' who, while certainly in control in their daily lives, don't need everyone and their mother to know that they're into BDSM, and aren't tempted to 'Dom' every woman they meet (my friends, the waitress, their own mother...)
My pictures are 3 years old - I will try to get some newer ones up ASAP (my hair is longer now - shoulder-length with bangs). But here's some of what you really want to know: I go to yoga, though not as often as I should, so I'm flexible, but not hard bodied - or hard-hearted! Decent-sized butt, but not buns of steel. Small waist/big hips. And I have nice, natural C-cup breasts, still defying gravity. I have never been pregnant. My eyes are kind of blue-green. Hope that helps. ;o)
I am a submissive, but not a masochist; I'll take some pain in service or in the event that I've earned a punishment (which I try not to do), but it's not a pleasure for me. What interests me is the mental side of D/s or M/s. I can also Top in service, but I'm a submissive-Switch at best.
The rest will sound like a profile on a regular dating website... because I'm interested in DATING Doms/Dominant Switches. If we get along as people, and there's chemistry and respect... then the D/s side of our relationship will probably just fall into place, or we can begin to negotiate it. :) I do realize that parts of my profile may NOT read as particularly 'subbish' - for what it's worth, I'm not EVERY man's sub. Just looking for the One. I do NOT 'top from the bottom', but don't expect to Dom me over the internet, either.
I’m very easy-going and laid back on most subjects (except a very few, very passionately-held ideals). Open-minded and liberal. I read a lot and have a philosophical and idealistic bent, but I’m also a realist and very logical. Confused yet? Let’s just say my feet are firmly on the ground, but my head is definitely in the clouds. I’m concerned with the Big Questions. I am not materialistic, and I detest shopping.
I decided when I was 12 that my tombstone should read: “She tried everything once.” There are a few exceptions to that rule now, but for the most part I’m still living my life that way. Love to explore and try the new-and-different. Almost always up for an adventure. I’ve lived a lot of different places, though the last 17 years have been in Southern California.
I’m an environmentalist, I drive a Prius, and I’m a vegetarian. If you eat meat that’s no problem (even steak houses have great vegetarian side-dishes!) but you need to be able to respect my choice. I don’t really enjoy political debates, either, so if you voted for Bush either time, but particularly the second time, we probably won’t do well together in the long-run. And if you drive a Hummer… er… ditto.
I can be goofy. I love comedies, and am a Monty Python fan. I haven’t plugged my TV in in six years, but when I do watch TV I love the Discovery Channel, Animal Planet, Comedy Central… I used to watch the X-files and Buffy, then Smallville for the first 3 years. Dead Like Me… More recently I've enjoyed Dexter and True Blood (I know, I know! So cliché!) I don’t care for sports, but if you’re a sports nut, cool – go hang with your buddies and that’ll be ‘me time’.
I like going out and doing stuff: camping, biking, music festivals, exploring - but when left to my own devices I’m too much of a home-body. You can generally find me hanging out and reading unless something (anything) more interesting is afoot.
I am looking for a man with a strong sense of himself, who stands on his own two feet and doesn’t need someone in his life to make it complete, but would welcome some companionship on the journey. Someone who enjoys laughing, and tries not to take things too seriously. Someone who believes that ‘what goes around comes around’ and tries to do the right thing. The details are negotiable, because I don’t need you to be my everything. And you’ll be okay with me having other close relationships (not necessarily sexual), because we both understand that no one can be all things to another. Bonus points if you’re an extrovert, but that’s not a requirement for sure (I'm a fairly social introvert).
Age would ideally be plus or minus 10 years. I have started filtering for this, too. I apologize. I just needed to reduce my mail volume to within more manageable parameters.
I do not have children, nor am I looking to have them. I am fine with you having children. I might also be open to adopting children at some point.
What else would you like to know? Drop me a line!
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