I'm 35, 5‘4", curvy & somewhat gothy-looking bbw, very long curly black hair, hazel green eyes & pale skin. I'm seeking a 28 to 40 year old dominant man; sincere and serious is a must.
I love long flowy skirts, black lace, romance & sexy underwear; I blush easily and I giggle when nervous or when I'm in a playful mood.
My match will be someone that is very honest and can be open about everything with me. Who will treat me with respect, love and caring. He needs to be in control of himself, secure enough that he doesn't have to prove he is dominant to others and can be both dominant and a gentleman toward me.
I am single and have no children (yet). I am looking for a serious committed relationship with 24/7, marriage and family possibilities (in due time, of course) - This means I'm NOT interested in married men, NO long distance (and no, I will NOT relocate more then 30 miles away), I'm NOT interested in Dom couples or poly households. I'm not interested in being just a play partner, nor in casual sex.
I am extremely loyal in my relationships -- I am not interested in a man who is insecure or jealous. I am a bit old fashioned in that I am monogamous (I know, strange to see in the lifestyle these days) and I expect the same from my significant other (although I do know there is a difference between a play scene and sex, and I love to do some sadistic topping of my friends now and then...) .
I am very active in the bdsm community (I have a very social personality), and would need a Dom who enjoys that also. My lifestyle friends are my extended family, and will always be an important part of my life.
I'm intelligent, educated and well-read.
I'm an excellent cook, but enjoy it so much more when it is for someone else.
I believe there is always something new to be learned even if you have been in the lifestyle for years; I love going to seminars and classes to learn new topics or skills that would be useful at home (and during play) and as a result, I can give a pretty decent manicure, pedicure, facial and massage and am learning bootblacking and leather care.
I have been in the lifestyle for my entire adult life; I know myself, and I know what I am looking for... Is it you?