PainxSlutt

Im not really one to Blog.I used to alot when i was younger and oddly enough alot more patient to sitdown and actually gather my thoughts.These days im lucky enough if i sit down to watch my usual silly 15 minutelate nite show on Adultswim withoutgetting sidetracked and wandering awayfrom the TV.But i'd like to vent a wee bit about something i've been getting countless messages about.This whole"Consideration" business....Now i'll save my"How i found BDSM" storyfor another late nite i cant sleep buti've  beeen.....knowledgeable i'll call itof the Lifestyle for going on 7 years.Evenread/learned of the Gorean lifestyle a bit..but i'll save that for the people whoenjoy Larping on saturday nights...('scuse meif i stepped on any toes,i may be submissive butthat doesnt mean i dont have my share of strong beliefs).Anyways....apparently people(mostly 45 year olds who should undoubtfully havethe words in huge letters"CREEPER" on their foreheads" seem to think that beingunder consideration is just a way topussify things...apparently the Person doingthe considering is a "player".How can onehonestly say that?....We all shouldbe well aware of what submitting to One REALLY entails....Why in the fuckwould Someone put his collar around a neckthat he doesnt quite know yet if they areworthy of wearing.Or from my point of view..I am a pretty black and white kinda person.All or nothing...no half assin no barely doin itno one foot in  nope none of that shit.So with that in mind...How can i fullysubmit to someone without actually takeing a suitableamount of time to consider?...to gain trust.Trustis a big thing for me....It is quite simpleyIMPOSSIBLE.So there ya go Mr"45 yr old chewbaca"Theres why consideration before collaringdoesnt mean"FAKER alert".If anyone has any rejections please dont be afraidto be vocal.