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Male Dominant, 50, Melbourne
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About PainObjectForUse
I am a male submissive. I like online play with intelligent, imaginative, slightly twisted Mistresses or Dommes with a sense of humour and maturity. I see the act of submission and Domination as a form of art that you can learn progressively like everything else, and set your goals to the highest possible standards. Your mind is the only thing between yourself and perfection.
A good intelligent mature approach and conversation, whether it originates from the submissive or the Dominant, can be the doorway to limitless possibilities. I find it not demeaning whatsoever if a Dominant takes the initiative. It shows consideration, respect, maturity and self-assurance from the part of the Dominant that should not be taken lightly by the submissive, but rather as a privilege.
The next paragraph reflects personal needs and is not intended to be disrespectful, whimsical or contemptuous.
Dominants who require financial tribute, who are too self-centered to think about anyone else but themselves and need for absolute control without regards for the other, need not go further than this paragraph. To clear up misunderstandings - when I speak of financial tribute, sensible is the key word, I am not against those who request something, as opposed to demanding something. And yes, money as the main concern of a Dominant will be promptly dismissed.
I don't have a lot of real world BDSM experience, just this one time a few years back, but have some online experience from real time Dommes.
I am not a slave nor do I intend to be or become one, relying instead on intelligence, maturity, mutual and self-respect, instead of blind faith, which leads to less positive paths like abuse and humiliation, which could shake (or crumble ) the foundations of a good relationship.
Any other more specific characteristics are readily available on the correspondent parts of my profile. If needed or sufficiently relevant, i will add further info here.
Partners are not on the top of my priorities right now, just looking to meet people and make friends at the moment.
Satisfying some fetishes, some moment's desire, cam sex or a quick fix are not my intentions or any other ephemeral triviality. Patience, subtlety, chivalry are standards I treasure.
P.S. I respect the right of everyone to have whatever profile they want to set up, live and let live I say. However, responsibility to the responsible, anyone should be prepared to face the consequences, good or bad, of any or all of the content of one's profile.
P.P.S - I do possess a sense of humour, but FaceBook got to it first.
Thank you A/all. I am in your care. |
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Educational forum threads
I just read a post today on the message boards and its ensuing ( unavoidable perhaps? ) and predictable outcome : How to make first contacts.
It was entertaining and most enlightning. I know I am not perfect and have a lot to learn and "netiquette" and subtlety are, to my regret, subjects that I don't master as well as I'd like to.
The thread I mention above has caustic and blunt replies, which sometimes IS the best way to learn, like having a cold shower in a very cold january morning to wake you up. |
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About my user name
Well, It seems my taste when it comes to forum user names is a bit on the tasteless side.
So, please don't take my taste in nicks too literally, and above all .... not against me!!
My real name is Tony, so yeah. See you around. |
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About friend requests
. I just like to say that I don't mind them at all, as long as you take a little of your time to get to know me ( and me Y/you), by exchanging profile messages and forum posts.
Make it count for something. Who wants to have 500 million friends, right? I prefer to have few but real friends who I enjoy having around.
Think about it! Let's make good choices so that we can make the best of our stay at Collarme. And have lots of kinky fun!!
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