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Male Dominant, 19, Rochester, New York
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Male Submissive, 39, meridian, Idaho
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Male Dominant, 65, New York
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About PainandGain
.....Just looking for that one female sub for something that's going to last. Really not interested in something casual or one-night as I'm just not made that way and don't plan on changing. I've tried it , of course, but it seemed that it was all just acting. Not real and I didn't enjoy that. A womans heart and body, to me, are to be cherished and protected. Without my sub, I'm alone and though others see money or other possessions as enough to make them happy, the touch and feel of a woman who submits to me can compare to nothing else in the world.
You are not a cum-dumpster, that I use for only my pleasure. I take great care in making sure that you're satisfied and that you know I can give those things to you, but in Dominate manner that you love. You have wants and needs also and I want to fulfill those. I want something out of the Lifestyle of course, because I choose to be Dom. Not only a Dom, but a sensual and caring Dom. I want an understanding of each other, acceptance of who we are, perseverance to understand and both of us able to work through any speedbumps that we might encounter on our way through life. Consistency in actions and assurance in what we have plays a big part in my mentality and I hope you feel the same. D/s is give and take, but there is always that caring involved. A woman who submits isn't to be taken for granted, for without her, a Dom is nothing.
I'm patient. I have the ability to bring you out of that shell and take you over that edge that you long for, if given the chance. I never have to yell or bring my voice above a whisper most of the time, as you will see who I am and if you choose to yield to me, a whisper is all it takes.
I'm vanilla outside in public and at home, a Dom that needs to know His sub is near and always available to Him, time permitting. I know that work and other things do exist, so I try to use my time wisely. I don't drink or use any sort of drugs. I'm not into the bar scene, as I've had my share of those places. I'm a light smoker, but only outside. Never in the house or around others who can't tolerate it. My dream is to own a Flat, with no inner walls, except the bathroom or storage. I'd also like to have high hanging windows to let the sunshine in. I long for that feeling of openess, not only outside, but inside also. Just as I long for it in myself and in you.
I have quite a few hobbies, which include Blacksmithing and antique iron restoration. As in D/s, I can take something neglected, bruised, battered and wanting, and turn it into something new and beautiful. I'm also in the process of adding Stained Glass to my other hobbies as I love to see the sun shine through and see a picture of something that darkness doesn't allow. I love to read and find knowledge, as it seems my brain is a sponge, which never gets that fullness. I'm down-to-earth, but, I'm also a Dom, with a very open mind to what I need and to what you long for. I long for that woman willing to give herself to me. Lettting me hold her in my hands and mold her into something beautiful, wonderful.
Destiny or Fate, if you will, can change things in a minutes time. That's why I'm here. You could be in my State of half-way across the country, but it doesn't matter. I'll find you. Just on here looking to see who's out there, in the hopes that she might see me too. Read my Journal entry and you can see a bit of how my mind ticks away while I wait for you.
***And, as a side note...Fisting and Dilation isn't in my routine and all my likes and dislikes pertain to my sub/slave. Not to myself, as I'm sure you know that. It all depends on what she and I enjoy enough to share. ***
Below describes the one I'm searching for.
“And in her thoughts, she spoke to herself...."I do not want to be the leader. I am submissive to Him. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want Him lying over me, always over me. His will, His pleasure, His desire, His life, His work, His sexuality my touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, possessed by the will of Him at His time, His bidding. I am submissive to Him”
I only have one pic on here and the reason I don't show my face is due to my job which involves the public. I do have others to share. I wish that I could read every woman's profile on this site, but I can't. So if you happen to find me on here and think that I might just be the one person that you've been searching for, send me a message. You never know until you try. I didn't use my time writing this novel about my wants and feelings for nothing. I just want those who see this to understand a bit about me. :-)
"Respect the woman, desire the slut and cherish the little girl. Expose them to a vicious experience in a fashion that allows them to appreciate it to the point of desiring more."
"How blessed am I in this discovering thee. To enter into these bonds and finally be free." ~submissive
WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any site using any and all content for studies or projects or personal use - You DO NOT have permission to use any of this profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. Plus, you'll get bitch-slapped really hard
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Orgasm denial always sounds so sweet. "Please!?" is such a wonderful word. The taste of excitement, the anticipation. The knowing of giving pleasure and pain simultaneously. The smell of her and the creaking sounds of the leather as she squirms and struggles to get closer to that one thing she needs...the one and only thing she wants at that very moment and yet, I still deny her. The chains pull tight against their anchors as impatience turns to frustration, frustration to begging. "Please, Sir. May I cum? Please, I'm begging you!", she moans. The sound in her voice almost a skipping record as she's pleaded so many times before, unknowingly prolonging it each time. And just when she feels that I might stop and walk away again, leaving her alone in silence and darkness behind her blindfold, I continue. The flickering of a tongue. A finger gently caressing inside her. Her clit sucked between my lips in a frenzied pulsation, feeling my warm breath on her. It starts as a bloom from a tiny flower and within seconds, washes into waves of sweet paralysis and the release that she's longed for. That deep intake of breath, holding it as she quivers and pulls tightly against the chains. Trying hard to move closer to me, her hips thrusting. Then, the sweet release from her that always brings a devious smile to my face. It only readies me for the next denial, even longer and slower.
~me
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