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Male Submissive, 39, meridian, Idaho
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Male Dominant, 65, New York
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Female Submissive, 43, Columbia, South Carolina
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About PainAndClarity
Respect is earned, not given. This is a common saying that I agree with, and I think it applies equally or moreso to submission. I want to be the kind of man who earns your respect and I want to be the kind dom who earns your submission. I want to show you that I am someone to whom you can entrust yourself, so you are free to let go and give yourself freely and fully to me. That takes time, but I am nothing if not patient.
I am not looking for a mindless slave. I want a whole person who craves clarity of instruction and purpose.
As for my tastes and preferences, it should be obvious from my username that I am interested in pain, but not actually into anything super extreme. Pain fascinates me for the way it can immediately focus the mind on the here and now, pushing everything else away, leaving you ready to listen and obey.
I have other fetishes and kinks, of course, but rather than make a list of desired activities, I'd rather open a dialogue to discuss and negotiate. However, if you aren't open to spanking and a bit of hair pulling at minimum, this probably won't work out, so I like to get that one out there.
I am a somewhat private person and not many people know or suspect that I have these sadistic tendencies, and I'd rather keep it that way. In public, I would want to find someone who seems relatively "normal" (whatever that means). Someone I can take around my friends and they are left thinking what a nice girl I met.
The picture isn't me. Once we're talking and there is a basic level of trust, I can send real pictures. |
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In case anyone puts any faith into answers from online tests:
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
99% Dominant
97% Rigger
95% Sadist
94% Master/Mistress
93% Brat tamer
93% Owner
92% Degrader
87% Daddy/Mommy
87% Non-monogamist
86% Primal (Hunter)
71% Experimentalist
69% Voyeur
52% Ageplayer
36% Exhibitionist
18% Vanilla
4% Masochist
2% Switch
2% Pet
1% Rope bunny
1% Degradee
1% Brat
1% Girl/Boy
1% Primal (Prey)
0% Submissive
0% Slave |
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I'm immediately suspicious of people who put their email address right in their profile. I know the messaging system here sort of sucks, but that makes me think they're just lazy phishers.
Does that make me paranoid? |
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