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Long term celibate/abstinent (and proud of it). Active, fit lifestyle. Young at heart, pacifist, very non-judgemental.
Like to enjoy the fun things in life, the aussie sun, clubbing, great outdoors, travelling the world (especially Mediterranean), nude beaches, etc.
Fiercely loyal and devoted to the one whom I connect and eventually submit to. Easy going free spirit, enjoy an intelligent chat. I'd love to hear about your experiences in the lifestyle.
Interest areas are:
- Intelligent Domina's who will show their crueler/sadistic side, but also not afraid to expose that softer underbelly;
- Long hair, sensual kissing, quality shoes/boots, massaging feet, pussy worship, eating ass;
- Chastity, long term denial/abstinence, ruined orgasms, edging/denied orgasms;
- Anal play, strap-on, prostate massage --> slow deliberate milking/draining without release
- Hard CBT & extreme ball busting (damage encouraged)
- Gagging & Physical restraints
Professional Dommes welcome to reach out and chat. I know some things in life are never free so open to mild tribute.
Though sensitive by nature, I'm in here rather than sites like Tinder as *not* looking for vanilla relationships. Vanilla sex also does not appeal to me.
There continues to be a significant Domina in my life who I know remains watchful, and whos influence and love remains ever eternal. For this I am honoured and thankful.
Play safe...
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It's easy to take off your clothes and have sex. People do it all the time, but opening up your soul to someone, letting them into your spirit, thoughts, fears, future, hopes and dreams....that is being naked... |
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Magical realism is defined as what happens when a highly detailed, realistic setting is invaded by something too strange to believe...
.......................................................and suddenly she was there..... |
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Fall in love with the person who enjoys your madness.
Not an idiot who forces you to be normal. |
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Anything that annoys you is teaching you patience. Anyone who abandons you is teaching you how to stand up on your own two feet. Anything that angers you is teaching you forgiveness and compassion. Anything that has the power over you is teaching you how to take your power back. Anything you hate is teaching you unconditional love. Anything you fear is teaching you courage to overcome your fear. Anything you can’t control is teaching you how to let go. ~Jackson Kiddard |
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Each relationship between two persons is absolutely unique. That is why you cannot love two people the same. It simply is not possible. You love each person differently because of who they are and the uniqueness that they draw out of you. ~W. Paul Young |
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"The traumatized are unpredictable because we know we can survive."
- Bedelia Du Maurier (Hannibal) |
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Be careful who you get close to because when you do get close you start to grow together. You start to mix thoughts, ideas, and actions. Like how two plants growing next to each other have tangled roots. It can be the most enriching thing or the hardest thing to take apart... |
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To My Queen
Every moment we spent together
Has touched our lives, our souls forever
The things that we shared and learned
Is permanent growth that we've earned.
The person that I have grown into today
Did not get there by chance, no way
I am who I am partly because of you
And you are YOU because of me, too
The changes I see
and what I have learned about me
are a response to how we affected our lives
and what we discover in each others eyes.
Even though we share our lives with others, we may yet one day be together
Either way, we have touched our lives forever!
No matter what the future will show
No matter what we are told.
We are connected on such a deep level
That no one can remove that, not even the devil.
Our feelings will be no different a year from now
And you are part of me forever somehow
A part of me will always be you
and a part of you will always be me.
no matter what happens ,that much is certain
our souls are one until life closes the curtain.
I will love your forever
For worse or for better
You are tattooed in my heart
And nothing can tear our souls apart.
My soul mate, I will never forget you
For my love is honest and true
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The only way to deal with an unfree world is to become so absolutely free that your very existence is an act of rebellion. Albert Camus |
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The chains that bind my body
hold me close and tight for You.
my essence, my power, like my love
is freely and wholly given.
In being Your submissive, i find freedom.
In losing myself to You, i am found.
The bounds which hold my body,
are but nothing, to those which hold my
heart to Yours.
The exquisite feel of Your torture,
The anguish of Your rapture and desire,
confounds yet calms
the maelstrom of my mind.
You take away everything,
All that i am.
Returning it, polished and radiant
More then ever it could be without You.
heart, body, mind and soul, are gifts to My Queen.
The teacher of my life. |
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As i kneel before you in the light
In front of friends to our delight
Your voice and touch make me calm
Your hands on my neck, my soothing balm
i rub my cheek on your leg, hoping to please
Your stress and hurts i hope to ease
You make me do what no one has done
You take me where i have never gone
i love your feel and your sweet caress
The power you hold is nothing less
Your cuffs and collars delight me
Will ever hold and command me
i am yours to command
Yours till the end.
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The question is this.
When one has a deep need to please,
and another has a dark need to use,
to what equilibrium can the latter lead the former to become.
And therein lies the friction, the shame, and the ecstatic.
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She is my last thought at night
and the first when I awake.
Risks of much to lose
yet so much to gain.
For what is the point of existing
if we turn from those things that are meant to be.
Worlds apart, yet inexorably bound
by forces that unite in body and mind.
She makes me hope; and I'm afraid to hope
I no longer fear; but yearn for what is yet to come. |
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Your shining light will be my guide.
Leads me to a place where I don't need to hide,
The Heavens open up the door.
With dreams so innocent and pure.
You are beautiful within the rays of light.
You are beautiful without the jewels of life.
Let your spirit capture me, my love is blind,
You are beautiful within, You are beautiful without.
In amongst the rays of light,
Your silhouette it shines,
You´re an angel you are free,
Let your spirit baptize me,
And elevate my mind.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N71JLmXqrd4 |
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Experience is the teacher of all things
Julius Caesar
What we wish, we readily believe, and what we ourselves think, we imagine others think also. Julius Caesar |
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Many among us are not meant to be fully understood. Fear not. Let everything about them (natural and unusual) adorn over you like a garment. Inhale deeply their spirit and wallow in it, for everything is a learning experience.... |
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Know that the sadistic and intelligent Domina will take your feelings for her and use them against you. Beware revealing too much if you are too weak to suffer the consequences. Only the strongest submissive, and he who is not afraid to yield to her heart & soul will endure and retain a deserving place by her side.... |
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1) Orgasm control is essential for the healthy sexual expression
2) Most men are unable to control themselves regarding their own orgasm, and require a woman’s control in order to abstain from masturbating
3) Without orgasm control, a man’s thoughts and desires are unmoored and scattered. With it, his focus remains constant and unyielding on the goal of continually pleasing the woman who controls him. The dynamic of orgasm control is healthy, natural and beautiful.
4) Men's resistance to the principles above are rooted in arrogance. The current standard cultural definition of masculinity is profoundly flawed, and is a product of the insecure arrogance of most men
5) A chastity device is a symbol of fidelity, a reminder of submissiveness, an expression of love, and a piece of decorative jewelry. It shouldn’t be forgotten that all of this is fun and erotic and hot and beautiful and lasting and real |
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one of the truths of being kept in chastity for extended periods of time is that I’m led to a very personal place inside me, where being locked is not only sexy and beautiful and symbolic and necessary, but normal. The concepts and practices discovered via chastity interest me. Occasionally, they downright preoccupy me.
It’s not something strange or shameful to me at all. I’d like to be able to talk about it with some people. Many of the emanations that flow from being locked up, as well as many of the principles involved, have little to do with the intimacies of sex. |
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And then my fair one gave to me,
A strange and brightly golden key,
Made by a master of the art;
And he said: "With this thou must not part.
For it is the key to my rare treasure
And thou art the Queen of my gilded pleasure.
Yes, indeed, thou art Queen and Mistress
Of my sweet body in joy and disaster;
So in this key lies all my wealth.
I give it freely in glad, good health." |
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We require it unspeakably dirty, and despicably kinky.
Penetration and other vanilla games are merely unnecessary distractions. |
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You are not better than Me because I am Submissive. |
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If My Queen is lost, I'll find Her. I'll lead Her back to Herself, because to serve doesn't always mean to follow... |
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I was filled with subtradiction: I wanted to fuck you and I wanted the state I was in. |
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That which yields is not always weak.... |
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“Fear, anxiety, arousal, and pain; all are emotions and sensations. They are neither right, nor are they wrong; good nor bad. They are simply passions, a most important part of life. Feel them, fully experience them, surrender to them, and learn to accept them. As a submissive, you must let go”
“Submission is not about authority and it is not obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.”
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“He needed the hand on his shoulder, the kiss to his temple and the hot, ragged breath of his Master over his face.”
― Casey K. Cox
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“Keep me rather in this cage, and feed me sparingly, if you dare. Anything that brings me closer to illness and the edge of death makes me more faithful. It is only when you make me suffer that I feel safe and secure. You should never have agreed to be a god for me if you were afraid to assume the duties of a god, and we know that they are not as tender as all that. You have already seen me cry. Now you must learn to relish my tears.” xx For her |
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"Social Dysfunction is not a disorder, but merely a contradictory attitude to populist societal norms" me, 2014 |
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If yet I have not all thy love;
Dear Mistress, I shall never have it all;
I cannot breathe one other sigh, to move,
Nor can intreat one other tear to fall;
And all my treasure, which should purchase thee,
Sighs, tears, and oaths, and letters I have spent;
Yet no more can be due to me,
That at the bargain made was meant.
If then thy gift of love were partial,
That some to me, some should to others fall,
Dear Mistress, I shall never have thee all. |
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My Mistress' eyes are nothing like the sun;
Coral is far more red than her lip's red;
If snow be white, why then her breasts are dun;
If hairs be wires, black wires grow on her head.
I have seen roses damasked red and white,
But no such roses see I in her cheeks;
And in some perfumes is there more delight
Than in the breath that from my mistress reeks.
I love to hear her speak, yet well I know
That music hath a far more pleasing sound;
I grant I never saw a goddess go;
My mistress, when she walks, treads on the ground.
And yet, by heaven, I think my love as rare
As any she belied with false compare
:William Shakespeare Sonnet CXXX |
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| Age: 36 |
| Garden Grove,
California |
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