I am at a point in my life where, it has become apparent that I need a sub /wife. I find functioning alone is useless. so I seek a submissive for lifestyle relationship and possible marriage, the Marriage of course will have to be earned just like a collar is earned

I AM SEEKING A REAL TIME RELATIONSHIP , marriage would be the dream result of the relationship but not the goal. so for all that feel I shouldnt use the word earned in regards to marriage, I will say this, all strive to earn a collar, and hold it higher then the wedding ring( I say this by number of married women on here needing a Master) so tell me if you strive to earn a collar ( which has none of the legal contations that the wedding ring does.) why shouldnt I demand that wedding is also earned??

I must make a little clearer since I still recieve such answers ,