For the type of relationship I seek the woman is the HOH or Head Of
 Household. The HOH makes all the rules for relationship. I would like to find a woman who would be willing to discuss these rules with me. Also I feel the HOH in the relationship should be willing to discuss the
 rules on why she made the rules she made. The HOH is in charge of
 discipline if rules are broken. I feel the bottom has the right to know what he is being punished for. The discipline in the relationship I seek could be either spanking, grounding, corner time, strapping, caning, and
 taking things away. These are the type of implements I believe should be used during a spanking: wood paddle,, strap, belt, cane, slipper, and
 cane. I am not looking to be someones door mat though or a slave. My
 feelings on this relationship is it should be normal relationship with
 loving domestic discipline mixed within it. The rules the HOH makes should
 be change behavior she thinks needs to change. Also the rules the HOH
 makes should be for safety as well. Well those are some of my thoughts
 on what LDD means to me.