Outsydlooknin

hmmm a little bit about me. Well the best way to describe myself is a laid back Dominant who knows who and what he is. I am open honest and not affraid to admit when I either dont know something or it is new to me. I do enjoy most forms of binding in particular rope, and corsetting. It is really hard to put in here all my interests since they are actually varied greatly but most are actually fairly common. Although I am laid back there are certian aspects of manner that I do expect.

My ideal would be one that is no pain slut, inflicting pain is not what I find enjoyable. she should have a mind of her own and be able to follow a set of guidelines that are laid out for her with the understanding that if the guidlines are not followed then there will be a direct reaction. I am not looking for a doormat ( those I can buy at walmart all day long), but I want someone that will give me a challenge to make me be creative and to use the brain that I do have. she must be willing to endure the fact that I want to know what she is thinking no matter how miniscule she may think it is I still want to know when I ask, and I will ask. I will know her mind as I know her body, the up and downs ins and outs, the curves and the flat spots as well.

Back to me again, I am concieted, arrogant, a smartass, but most of all a decent man. Many have asked why the name of Outsydlooknin .. and the reasoning is because often times I dont alwasy see things as how they are either written spoken or the body movement. I watch I look I pick up on the little things that everyone passes by as normal and accepted. I dont .. I disect them I look deeper than what is given for face value..... is a 100 dollar bill actually worth a hundred dollars to anyone? or is it simply a piece of cloth and paper fibers that represents what is considdered to be 100 dollars worth of gold.

well I guess I have rambled on enough for the time being.

Outsyd