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Female Submissive, 42, Fairfax, Virginia
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About OurThirdLove
“I made you fall in love with me. I wish I could make you fall in love with yourself.” That belief is the heart of how we live.
We are an established Master/slave dynamic looking to thoughtfully add one more woman who wants structure, leadership, and a place to grow within something real.
The Master
Late 30’s. 6’2”. 210 lbs of muscle, bone, and arrogance. Smarter than I look and dumber than I sound. I can hold a conversation in five different languages no promises I’ll make sense in all of them.
I am both nurturing and strict.
Structure matters. Consistency matters. Growth matters.
I’ve lived the Dominant lifestyle for 19 years. This is not curiosity or roleplay this is my identity and my craft.
I don’t collect attention.
I don’t collect bodies.
I build women.
My focus is learning how a woman submits and drawing out her best qualities:
• discipline
• femininity
• devotion
• emotional stability
• peace
My dominance isn’t copy-and-paste BDSM. If you enter my world, you learn my structure and you’ll value it because it’s steady, predictable, and earned.
Outside the dynamic
• Project Manager at T-Mobile (yes, I run a terrifyingly good PowerPoint)
• U.S. Navy veteran
• Studied psychology
• Originally from New Jersey (no accent)
• Writer, singer, active lifestyle
• Big baseball fan
• Family-oriented
• Outgoing, direct, punctual
• Tattooed
The Slave
She lives within structure, protocol, and intentional service.
Her submission is not weakness it is trust, devotion, and emotional strength.
She thrives under leadership and believes in building a connected household dynamic rooted in:
• communication
• emotional safety
• consistency
• growth together
She welcomes the right woman who understands that this is a shared structure, not competition a household built on respect, roles, and mutual support.
What We’re Looking For
A slave-minded woman who wants leadership, stability, and personal growth not fantasy chat or temporary intensity.
You should be seeking:
• guidance and discipline
• protocol and obedience
• training and progression
• emotional connection and depth
• long-term structure
• collar potential (for the right fit)
Our View of M/s
A slave is not beneath a Master out of disrespect.
She kneels beneath him because she trusts him to lead her well.
The slave serves.
The Master leads.
Her obedience is earned, cultivated, and protected.
Correction is never cruelty.
It is guidance, reinforcement, and care.
A slave blooms when she realizes she doesn’t have to carry everything alone because someone capable is carrying the weight with her.
Foundation first:
Communication. Trust. Respect. Consistency.
Everything else grows from there.
If You’re Serious Message with:
1 Age location
2 Experience level
3 The dynamic you’re truly seeking
4 Limits / non-negotiables
5 What your ideal day-to-day structure looks like
My results
== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==
100% Master/Mistress
98% Dominant
95% Owner
90% Primal (Hunter)
77% Daddy/Mommy
76% Degrader
67% Rigger
66% Brat tamer
55% Experimentalist
46% Sadist
37% Voyeur
33% Non-monogamist
26% Vanilla
23% Exhibitionist
0% Ageplayer
0% Switch
Her results
== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==
100% Submissive
94% Slave
89% Pet
86% Rope bunny
81% Experimentalist
72% Degradee
70% Masochist
69% Non-monogamist
63% Brat
62% Primal (Prey)
52% Little
43% Exhibitionist
37% Voyeur
31% Vanilla
16% Ageplayer
0% Switch |
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