Single white professional 30's male sub seeks mature female companionship.
What I'm Looking For: I'm looking to meet an assertive yet emotionally open mature woman for mutually rewarding play (and hopefully) an ongoing relationship.
I want to emotionally and sexually submit. Ostensibly this would take the form of being physically punished and verbally humiliated, but this would only be the overt manifestation of an underlying mental submission. As such, I am definitely more of a submissive than a masochist and I don't have any real affinity with the iconography of dungeon, chains, PVC, massively complicated equipment, etc. (although I certainly don't have any problem with such items).
I guess that the best way I can put it is that I want to experience the confluence of emotional warmth and sexual excitement. I would like to feel that I have permission to be sexually excited and really open up. I've had experiences with pro-dommes in the past, but the distance implicit in a client/professional relationship is ultimately unsatisfying.
About Me: In my day-to-day existence, I am a single (never married, no children) white 38-year-old professional. I am clean, sane and solvent, and the only skeletons in my closet are of the psychosexual variety. I won't pretend that I have the looks of Robert Redford, but I do at least boast a full compliment of limbs and faculties. I'm probably deluding myself, but I consider myself to be relatively intelligent and articulate, and if nothing else, I am rarely lost for something to say so can always keep up my end of a conversation. My outward demeanour is in no way submissive.
I enjoy history and a good novel, as well as travel and have a tenuous grasp of the arts in my own decidedly middlebrow way. Naturally, I also enough 'bloke stuff' like sport, which if nothing else means that while I'm not chiselled, neither am I bloated.
About You: The number one thing which I am looking for is a certain attitude and demeanour. It would be great if you were physically gorgeous, but the ability to show affection is key, and a certain twinkle behind the eyes is much more important than a perfect figure. I find ladies with larger bodies extremely attractive. I would like to meet a woman who is 'mature' and most of my relationships have been with such ladies. However, my definition of 'mature' is pretty nebulous.
If you feel that this inarticulate ramble is of any interest whatsoever, please get in touch. I'll always reply and be polite.
